My creepy entitled neighbor is constantly trying to find excuses to come to my house with the secret

intention of trying to get with me. But after she showed up one night while my girlfriend was here,

my girlfriend put this lady in her place in a way that she truly will never forget. Here's what

happened. So I recently moved into a new house and a small gated community over the summer.

And this is the first time I've lived in a house since

I was little. When I moved in, I received a lot of welcome gifts from my neighbors, since it is a very tight-knit community. And this is how I met most of my neighbors, including a woman who we will call Dana and her husband. Dana is my next-door neighbor, and the first time we met, Dana came to my front door with her husband and three sons to introduce themselves. They brought me

homemade cookies as a welcome gift, and her sons were

really into dirt bikes and saw mine in the garage as I was moving in. I told them they could come over

and check them out anytime they wanted, and honestly, I was just being nice. Now, Dana never really said

anything or gave out any kind of red flag, but the next week

I was at work, I got a motion notification from one of my cameras at my house. It was a video of

Dana by herself looking into a window on the side of my house. I maybe thought she was checking

to see if I was home, so I didn't think much of it. But then, I got a text from her later that

day, asking me when I would be home, since her sons wanted to come over and check out my bikes. I replied that I would be working late, and she responded that she would let her sons know. And honestly, nothing ever really happened for a few weeks. The second event was a Saturday night where she knocked on my front door and asked if I would like to come over for dinner. Now, at time I didn't really have much going on, so I said to her, sure, why not? I go over to her house and I'm expecting her family to be there, but no, it was just her. She said that her family was visiting a family member and I didn't want to be rude, so I ended up staying. Now Dana is a big talker, so I barely got a word in that night. It felt strange, but it was just a conversation. I saw her husband, who we will call Chris, a few days later while checking the mail, and he asked me if I enjoyed Dana's cooking, but I just responded that it was great, and that I wish he could have made the dinner, so I guess he knew about us having dinner and I was fine with that.

The third event was a few days ago when my camera caught Dana walking into my backyard by herself

and the camera picked up that she was looking into my shed. I then confronted her on the phone

and she said she was just looking for a shovel. I informed her that my tools were in the garage

and made sure to let her know that I can see everything on my cameras. She then apologized for not asking me before coming over, and she later that day sent me a picture of my boat in my driveway, asking if I could take her out on the boat sometime. And I just left that message on red. The latest event happened last night. I had my somewhat new girlfriend over the house, and we were grilling in the

backyard having a good time when all of the sudden Dana shows up with her boys and literally

self-invited her family to dinner. It was extremely awkward for everybody. I tried telling them that

I didn't have enough for everybody, but Dana claimed that her family wasn't that hungry,

and she didn't even leave until my girlfriend left. So at this point, I'm extremely confused if Dana is into me or just has no social awareness. The only thing at this point keeping me from straight up confronting her is that we are neighbors, meaning that we have to live next to each other. Her husband has been nice and doesn't give off any strange vibes. But at this point, I'm wondering what I can do to tell her that I want her to leave me alone. Do I need to wait for her to do something again? What should I do? Before we go any further, the original poster has an update that they would like to share. Here's what they had to say. Okay, for starters, I honestly was not expecting the original post to blow up in the way that it did.

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