We're so consumed by attachment. And what I do is I ask people to challenge people to consider

what they believe on a very fundamental level about religion, about money, about work, about where they live, who they are, who they should be.

Because here's my theory, I think you all know exactly what you want to do.

Well, I'm never going to be like my father. I'm never going to be poor. I'm never, I'm never, I'm never, I'm never. Maybe it's time to stop running

away from us to use the bear analogy, stop running away from the bear. Maybe it's time to start

moving towards the things that I want to do.

Because you know the problem with fear is it doesn't need Red Bull.

It doesn't need caffeine. It doesn't need water. It doesn't need air. And when you're

running and spending all of your life running from the very thing that scares the

shit out of you.

And when you finally have to stop because you're getting old

or you're getting tired or you need sustenance

and you need water and you stop to take a breath

and you look around the bastards right behind you.

So if you've got a fear about something what you'll find is it's not a fear about the bungee jumping it's not a fear about money it's not a fear about

success if you go far enough back you find out that it's an old fear and it's just showing itself in a different way

Because I used to set a lot of goals and I used to achieve them.

And what I often say is I'd achieve a goal or a series of goals

and how I kind of describe it is I get to the top of a mountain,

I get the top of a peak, and I'd get there and I'd lift myself up and I'd stand at the top of that peak and I'd look around and go.

Wow, was that it?

Shit, I thought it was going to be, uh, I thought it was going to be happier, I thought it was going to be a better feeling.

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