Crash Course: Kids Who Don’t Comply, Listen, or Care About Consequences
Calm Parenting Podcast
Kirk Martin
4.7 • 1.4K Ratings
🗓️ 29 November 2024
⏱️ 21 minutes
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Crash Course: Kids Who Don’t Comply, Listen, or Care About Consequences
You have kids who don’t always listen, want to do things their way, and don’t care about consequences. What DOES work with these kids? In less than 20 minutes, Kirk shares 10 rapid fire ideas to show you exactly how to get strong-willed kids to be responsible for themselves…when nothing else works. This is a must listen. Share with your spouse and family! Our Black Friday Sale Ends Saturday at 11:59pm. Visit https://celebratecalm.com/black-friday/ to purchase the Get Everything Package at the lowest prices of the year. Get practical strategies that really work with your strong-willed kids.
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| 0:00.0 | So I bet I have a way for even reluctant teens and tweens to spend time with you. |
| 0:05.4 | Sit and better on the sofa, wrapped in the heavenly softness of the new cozy earth bubble cuddle |
| 0:10.8 | blanket. It is so ridiculously soft. Your toddlers, your teens, pets, even your spouse is going to |
| 0:16.8 | want to cuddle with you. And you will have the best talks all wrapped up together. We absolutely |
| 0:23.7 | love our bubble cuddle blanket because it's the perfect combination of style and comfort. Oh, |
| 0:29.5 | and your sensory kids, forget about it. They're going to try to steal the cozy earth bubble |
| 0:33.7 | cuddle blanket from your room. I'd have them do extra chores to buy their own, but then you |
| 0:38.6 | might not be able to get them out of bed. Look, your bed shouldn't just be a place to sleep. It should be |
| 0:43.4 | your happy place. Use the cozy earth bamboo sheets. We'd love those. And this new blanket, |
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| 0:56.0 | that's cozy earth.com code calm for 40% off so you have kids who don't listen all the time they |
| 1:04.1 | don't always do what you want them to do they want to try to do it their way their stove |
| 1:09.2 | touchers i understand this is really |
| 1:11.5 | frustrating when you have a strong will child because the more you push, the more they resist, |
| 1:17.7 | the more you lecture, the more they tend to shut down. These are assertive, persistent kids who get |
| 1:24.1 | a vision of what they want to do in their brains and then they go to carry it out |
| 1:28.1 | and they tend to tune everything else out and one of the first things we go to is consequences |
| 1:34.2 | because that's all we've been taught as parents is well you just need to give them a consequence and |
| 1:38.9 | that will change their behavior but it doesn't work and i've seen this on instagram and even on |
| 1:43.5 | thanksgiving day we got email after email about this |
| 1:46.3 | So I thought I would record a special kind of crash course in understanding how we approach things how strong will kids work |
| 1:55.2 | And I'm going to try to keep this around 20 minutes because of the holidays. So forgive me because I don't have it all scripted out, |
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