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Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

Couples Communication For Stressful Times | E313

Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

YAP Media Network | Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

Relationships, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.7890 Ratings

🗓️ 29 August 2022

⏱️ 53 minutes

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Summary

It’s no secret that good communication is the key ingredient to a healthy relationship. But, as we all know, couples communication can be challenging — especially when you're under stress.   When you and your partner are under stress, communication gets hard. It’s so easy to forget everything you know about active listening and “I-statements” when you’re feeling emotionally elevated, and to slip into a communication style that’s heavy on criticism, blame, and defensiveness. This tendency is totally human — but it’s also a bad habit that we all must overcome for our relationships to truly thrive.    On this episode of the podcast, we’re discussing couples communication strategies that will not only help you manage feelings of stress without damaging your relationship, but that will tap into the power of your deep love and support for each other so you can get through stressful times while strengthening your connection.    My guest is Silas H., M.S., MFTC, a couples counselor and relationship coach on our team at Growing Self. Silas has helped many couples improve their communication patterns and overcome adversity as a team, and he’s sharing his original and highly actionable advice with you today.    All of this and more is here for you. I hope you’ll join us!   Xoxo,    Dr. Lisa Marie bobby GrowingSelf.com

Transcript

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0:00.0

This is Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, and you're listening to the Love, Happiness, and Success Podcast.

0:09.8

On my own with you was an effortless until the others came.

0:27.1

That's Bridget May Power with a song on my own with you, which I thought was perfect for our subject today,

0:36.6

because today I want to talk with you about

0:39.2

things that you can do to understand your partner differently, to improve your communication,

0:46.1

and to really be able to connect with each other emotionally and support each other emotionally.

0:53.7

My hope is that by listening to this podcast

0:56.9

today and using some of the skills and strategies we describe, you can experience a stronger,

1:04.3

happier, more emotionally connected relationship in a way that strengthens it.

1:10.1

On that note, I have invited my colleague, Silas,

1:14.5

to come and speak with me today about how men and women and, you know, people in general,

1:20.8

cope with stress in different ways and the simple things that we can do in those moments of

1:26.7

stress to build bridges to the center

1:29.3

and connect with our partners instead of creating, you know, unknowingly creating rifts in our relationships.

1:38.7

Let's turn to our business at hand, which is a little bit of emergency medicine for relationships that might be

1:48.6

struggling if you're not seeing things eye to eye on what you guys both should be doing,

1:53.2

or really like if you're needing a different kind of emotional support than you're getting

1:59.5

from your partner right now and it's

2:01.1

creating conflict. You know, if you're having those ultra fun fights about, you know, how you're

2:07.1

talking to each other or the way that you're relating to each other, this podcast is for you.

2:13.8

So I'm so glad you're here. And again, my wonderful colleague, Silas, is here with us today.

2:21.4

Silas is a marriage counselor, couples therapist, relationship coach. She also does individual

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