Couple Therapy Ethics Case
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
4.5 • 1.3K Ratings
🗓️ 12 January 2026
⏱️ 87 minutes
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00:00 The case brief
08:47 Can you work with two individuals after initial couples therapy?
21:34 Getting involved in a custody battle
44:52 The lawsuit and breach of confidentiality
50:01 Why was it indefensible?
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| 0:00.0 | Hey, discerned listeners. I thought I would present an ethics and legal case that I received from my malpractice insurance, HBSO, and CNA. |
| 0:11.0 | And I thought I would review it, and we could evaluate it. So let's get into it. My name is Dr. Kirk Honda. I'm a therapist and a professor. And again, this is a case study sent out by my malpractice as a case example for insured counselors to read so that they could avoid running into the same problems. So I'm reading a somewhat paraphrased version of the case brief. The insured counselor, |
| 0:43.3 | so the person who was complained against, is a licensed professional counselor or LPC. And it is a |
| 0:51.9 | woman. The counselor is a woman. And the counselor has been practicing for more than 15 years in private practice. So not someone who is a novice, but in private practice, sometimes for us counselors, us therapists, we can have a hard time staying up to date on the ethics and on the standards |
| 1:13.7 | of practice because we're kind of isolated, that kind of thing. But I don't know the situation |
| 1:17.9 | with this counselor. So let's go on with the case briefing. The clients involved in the complaint |
| 1:25.2 | were a husband and wife who sought counseling for marriage. |
| 1:31.5 | And the LPC, the counselor, upon the first session recommended joint sessions, obviously |
| 1:40.1 | couples counseling, but also individual therapy sessions to augment the marriage counseling. |
| 1:48.0 | So the clients agreed that they would meet jointly and separately with the therapist, |
| 1:54.8 | and informed consent was obtained. Sometimes in these case briefings, we learned that the therapist didn't even do |
| 2:03.0 | informed consent, didn't have them sign anything, which is obviously a problem, but it sounds like |
| 2:08.9 | that was done. So everything looks on the up and up. Some of you might be thinking, wait, |
| 2:12.9 | can a counselor both see the couple and the members of the couple individually. And the answer is yes. |
| 2:21.4 | For whatever reason, some people in the public and even some counselors will claim that that's |
| 2:25.8 | unethical. It's not unethical. It's a common standard in couple therapy to occasionally meet |
| 2:33.0 | individually. I will often meet individually with couples, |
| 2:37.6 | particularly high conflict couples. I will meet, I will alternate individual sessions with |
| 2:44.5 | couple sessions. You know, I'll meet with the couple one week and then the next week I'll meet |
| 2:49.0 | with each of them individually and then the next week I'll meet with each of them individually and then the next week |
| 2:51.0 | I'll meet with them as a couple, this sort of thing. And I find that I can accelerate therapy |
| 2:56.9 | with that model with some clients because if I'm meeting individually with them, I can get them |
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