Time now for a refresher from my Dr Laura Call of the Day Archives and remember you two can participate on my live radio program heard weekdays from 2 to 5 p.m. Eastern time on Serious XM Triumph 111.

Carol, welcome to the program.

Hi, thank you for taking my call.

Thank you.

I'm a little bit nervous because I've just started listening to you about six months ago

and I've done everything wrong.

And. Well, I shouldn't say everything, but a lot of things wrong. I was married for 24 years. We grew apart, paid more attention to our children than our marriage, and ultimately he cheated on me and then we divorced.

I was very vulnerable and didn't feel year remarried.

And how long have you been married?

And how long have you been married to this one?

Five years.

And, um... five years. And I told your screener that he told me a year after, well, was right after we got married, that he had an STD.

And which one did he have?

I honestly was kind of in shock and just have not addressed it since then,

and I don't know.

I'm sure I need to go to the doctor get it

checked but he said that whenever you freaking kidding me he told you he had an

S.D. and you didn't immediately go to your gynecologist?

Are you nuts?

Yes.

And then you had sex with him, unprotected?

Yeah.

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