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Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory

Conversations with Tom | Social Psychologist Explains How Good Intentions & Bad Ideas Are Leading Us To Failure

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory

Impact Theory

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4.75.2K Ratings

🗓️ 20 August 2020

⏱️ 81 minutes

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Summary

Social psychologist Jonathan Haidt researches moral psychology to help us understand ourselves and our world better. He is an expert on how we create webs of meaning that allow us to speak a common language, build institutions, and create functioning societies. And right now we may need his voice more than ever, as our webs of meaning seem to be in conflict with each other or slowly disintegrating. On this episode of Conversations with Tom Bilyeu, Jonathan Haidt explains why we need to lead with empathy, how to persuade people who have staked out very different positions from yours, and how to invite disconfirming evidence into your life. This episode is brought to you by: Impact Theory University: university.impacttheory.com Skillshare: Explore your creativity at skillshare.com/impacttheory for 2 free months of Premium Membership. Indeed: Go to Indeed.com/IMPACT for a FREE $75 credit to boost your job post. SHOW NOTES: Why are we 90% chimps and 10% bees? [2:01] Jonathan suggests a definition of morality [4:14] Jonathan and Tom discuss religion and spiritual, mind-opening experiences [5:53] Jonathan explains the “hive switch”, the group experience of religion and morality [11:27] Jonathan and Tom discuss the power of connection and group interaction [16:34] Jonathan talks about the problems with social media and how they developed [20:18] What makes some webs of meaning so powerful that they spread so fast? [27:57] Jonathan and Tom ask to what extent political affiliation is genetic [33:29] Jonathan discusses the disturbing trend towards conformity in political thought [37:18] Jonathan and Tom discuss changing American attitudes towards race [ Jonathan talks about how hard it is to lead with empathy [46:52] Jonathan advocates trying many approaches to dealing with problems like racism [50:30] How do we constructively discuss difficult topics? [54:51] Why we have to get people to focus on similarities [59:02] Jonathan discusses his experience with psychedelics [1:03:52] How to invite disconfirming evidence into your life--How do you know you’re right? [1:10:44] We need to find a way to speak a common language in our post-Babel Age [1:16:27] FOLLOW JONATHAN: WEBSITE: jonathanhaidt.com/ FACEBOOK: facebook.com/jonathanhaidt/ TWITTER: twitter.com/JonHaidt BOOKS MENTIONED: “Tao Te Ching” Lao Tzu “Tao of Jeet Kune Do”, Bruce Lee “Dancing in the Streets: A History of Collective Joy”, Barbara Ehrenreich “Keeping Together in Time”, William McNeill “Long Walk to Freedom”, Nelson Mandela Emile Durkheim is mentioned often: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/%C3%89mile_Durkheim

Transcript

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0:00.0

Everybody, welcome to another episode of Conversations with Tom.

0:06.1

I am here with Jonathan Height.

0:08.4

Jonathan, thank you so much for joining me, man.

0:11.0

As I was mentioning before we got started, the thing that draws me to you is you seem

0:16.8

truly committed to understanding the way the human mind works.

0:20.5

And that is my core mission in life, largely for my own benefit if I'm completely honest,

0:26.1

but I'm super excited to get into that stuff with you.

0:28.8

Well, thank you Tom.

0:29.6

It's a pleasure to be here.

0:32.0

Yeah, I'm a psychologist.

0:33.4

I'm a social psychologist.

0:34.7

And when I learn stuff professionally, I'm going to learn about how the mind works.

0:40.1

I think like, oh, now I understand that other thing or that other person.

0:45.0

So yeah, if you want to talk about the mind for an hour, I'm there with you.

0:50.6

Yeah, so the reason that I'm so focused on the mind in my own life is so the movie The

0:57.0

Matrix has become the dominant metaphor in my life, not because I necessarily think we

1:01.0

are actually living in a simulation.

1:02.7

I actually don't partly, I guess, because I don't find that a very interesting framework

1:07.6

with which to approach the world.

1:08.9

So even if we are, I don't know how useful that is.

1:12.2

But your brain is definitely creating a detached sort of virtual reality that isn't about

1:19.4

measuring the number of photons that are reflecting off of an object and landing on your

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