Controversial Opinions - Red Flag Edition

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Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Comedy

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🗓️ 5 February 2026

⏱️ 52 minutes

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This week on Come Curious XXXtra Kinky Episode, Florence and Reed unpack whether “red flags” are actually warnings… or just wildly subjective vibes that depend on who’s holding the binoculars. They get honest about bras, pleasure doms, consent in long-term relationships, “high value men”, performative feminism, and whether bad sex actually exists… or if it’s all just incompatibility. And just when things get extra juicy, they cross the dirty watershed and head into the explicit Patreon-only half (dating chaos, DDLG discomfort, and why stability can feel suspicious). This is for our subscribers only so if you want to get the REAL goss, then become an XXXtra Kinky Curious Fcker and tune in . PLUS we rate our FAVE Erika Lust films and this month it's all about outdoor erotic cinema! Use our spicy discount code SPICY45 to get 45% off (we know… it’s a CRAZY discount) on their website here ✨ We LOVE hearing your thoughts about what you want us to discuss so send us your burning questions, spill the beans and we’ll share all on the podcast! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Oh my God.
0:07.0	You're listening to Come Curious.
0:10.3	Hot Takes, Cold Reality, Red Flag Edition.
0:18.4	Hello, hello, hello, read.
0:21.9	Hello, Florence.
0:23.6	We were debating way too long about the title of this podcast.
0:28.6	Because we were just talking about red flags.
0:31.3	Like, a red flag is something that people still use?
0:33.6	Are we still using that term?
0:35.4	We're not seeing it so much on social media anymore.
0:38.3	That's for sure.
0:39.3	It's not really like a buzzword anymore.
0:42.3	Yeah, I didn't, I stopped using red flags because like, I just feel like everybody's red flags are so different, you know?
0:50.3	Like when we think of a red flag, it's like, stereotypically, that is a red flag to avoid that person because that means it's something like bad or not okay.
0:59.7	But then that bad thing might be different to other people like, oh, he split the bill.
1:04.8	That's my red flag.
1:05.8	And then I'd be like, no, that's that's like a beige flag to a green flag for me.
1:10.5	Yeah.
1:10.8	So I feel like they're kind of irrelevant, but they do describe when you're not
1:15.8	vibing with someone very well.
1:18.3	Basically, they're useful for when you're describing dates that you've been on with friends.
1:23.5	Yes, they are useful.
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