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Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast

Contract vs. a Covenant Mindset

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast

Focus on the Family

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.51.9K Ratings

🗓️ 30 April 2026

⏱️ 10 minutes

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Summary

What's the difference between a contract vs. a covenant type of love? Dr. Greg Smalley answers that question. Then, Jim Daly talks with Dr. Gary Chapman on what real commitment in your marriage looks like. At the end, Erin and John will share what you can do if you're in a tough spot as a couple.

 

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Input output, but where's there room for grace?'m john fuller along with gregg and aaron

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smally and welcome to the show gregg today we're going to be talking about covenant versus contractual

0:47.7

love and i'd love for you to just kind of give us a quick overview of the differences yeah because

0:53.2

they're very very different different. You know,

0:56.5

when the Bible talks about a covenant, it's really a binding promise that's being made before God

1:03.3

with, so in this case, your spouse. That's a big deal. I mean, we enter into a binding agreement a binding promise that that that god

1:15.8

then takes extremely serious versus you think about like a a contract you know contract

1:22.7

says i'll stay as long as the terms are met well a covenant says I'm committed even when things are hard.

1:30.5

And that's the point. That's the love that we watch in the Old Testament that God had towards

1:37.9

his bride, the children of Israel. Just, you know, you think of all the rebellion, all the horrible

1:43.0

choices that they made all the time.

1:46.0

And he continued to say, I will never leave you nor forsake you.

1:51.7

That his binded love through that contract for them is exactly what he's made with us.

1:59.8

As we accept his son, who he he sent who died on the cross for us

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