Consequences for Defiance, Disrespect & Lying? #439
Calm Parenting Podcast
Kirk Martin
4.7 • 1.4K Ratings
🗓️ 15 January 2025
⏱️ 24 minutes
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Consequences for Defiance, Disrespect & Lying?
Your toddler yells, "I hate you, Mommy!" Your child lies right to your face or responds in a disrespectful tone to test boundaries. Teens and tweens roll their eyes at you or begin drinking/vaping against your rules. What are appropriate consequences? What works even better than consequences?! Kirk gives you scripts and actions steps for kids of all ages.
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| 0:00.0 | So I bet I have a way for even reluctant teens and tweens to spend time with you. |
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| 0:56.0 | that's cozy earth.com code calm for 40% off so what do you do when your toddler says i hate you |
| 1:04.5 | mommy or your child responds to you in a disrespectful tone or perhaps your teenager rolls her eyes at you. How do you handle those |
| 1:12.6 | situations? Are there consequences that will work during those times? That is what we're going to |
| 1:18.4 | discuss on today's episode of the Calm Parenting Podcast. So welcome. This is Kirk Martin, |
| 1:21.9 | founder, Celebrate Calm. You can find us and our sale at Celebrate Calm.com. So you have very strong will kids. They're not always |
| 1:29.2 | going to walk around and say, yes, mother, of course, father. These are kids who have definite |
| 1:33.9 | opinions, who are impulsive, who are often very moody. We've talked about these kids that |
| 1:39.9 | oftentimes when they process their disappointment and emotions verbally. And some of you have |
| 1:47.8 | kids who kind of came out of the womb, like our son with boxing gloves on and a pretty |
| 1:52.7 | strong mouth. And so we don't want to do the two extremes. I don't want to say, well, she was |
| 1:59.8 | upset. It's okay. I don't want to excuse the behavior. |
| 2:04.3 | I also don't want to go the opposite route and just shut kids down. You're never going to talk to me |
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