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Front Row Seat with Ken Coleman

Confidence Expert: What Actually Builds Confidence (It’s Not What You Think)

Front Row Seat with Ken Coleman

Ramsey Network

Careers, Business, Self-improvement, Education

4.62.6K Ratings

🗓️ 7 April 2026

⏱️ 65 minutes

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0:00.0

Self-criticism, you haven't done enough, you're not enough, keep pushing, in the long run

0:10.0

ends up leading to emotional burnout, dissatisfaction, unhappiness. You may achieve objective success,

0:16.0

but you're still never happy. So I'm going to share something with you and anyone who struggles

0:20.0

with acceptance that

0:20.9

might completely change the way you view positive affirmation. Positive affirmation backfires and

0:26.3

makes you feel worse. That is a huge shift. She's a former lawyer turned behavioral researcher

0:31.9

who's helped Fortune 500 companies build stronger leaders. Dr. Shadeh Zurai is reshaping how we understand confidence and the

0:38.7

quiet beliefs that drive performance. Psychologically healthy people do experience doubt. It is a necessary

0:44.6

part of the human experience. We think we're the only one who experiences this. We're the only one

0:49.7

with doubts. We're the only one who becomes critical after a failure. No, that's ignorant to think that.

0:54.8

How do we begin to build that muscle?

0:57.1

I love that you're asking this question.

0:58.6

This is where we get to the really meaty piece.

1:05.0

I was telling you earlier how much I love the topic of the new book and really the thrust of your work.

1:12.5

The new book is called Big Trust, Rewire Self-Doubt, Find Your Confidence, and Fuel Success.

1:18.5

Really fun.

1:21.6

And I was telling you earlier that in all the years, and now it's 10,000 plus calls of coaching people live on the air, so you got

1:29.3

about eight minutes max, so you got to dig quickly. One of the things I found all that time is that

1:35.4

we're all just looking for that magical feeling of confidence. And this is just so vital to winning

1:43.8

in life, obviously winning and work. And so I'm so

1:47.9

excited to dive in on this. And I want to get to some data right away. National Library of Medicine

1:52.2

studies said that up to 82% of professionals report experiencing imposter syndrome at some

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