Confessions of an Ex Fckboy
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 20 July 2021
⏱️ 77 minutes
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Summary
Ilana’s older brother Andrew (31) is joining us on the podcast today to reassure us that once a fckboy, not always a fckboy. After years of immersing himself in a fuckboy bro-y culture (including being his fraternity’s social chair, promoting parties, and working for a nightlife startup), he turned a corner and began to learn that human connection and vulnerability was more valuable and fulfilling than partying and sex. Andrew walks us through what sparked his transformation, including taking a break from alcohol and dating while spending time in India, his move to the San Francisco Bay Area which allowed him to explore the spectrums of sex, gender, identity, etc., studying attachment styles, spirituality, and researching how childhood and ancestral trauma prevent us from showing up fully in life, and are often present major challenges in relationships of all types.
Check out a piece by Andrew on his womanizing past: https://link.medium.com/65gcweVc2hb
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| 0:00.0 | This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation. |
| 0:07.5 | Hey guys, it's Alana and welcome back for another episode of Seeing Other People. |
| 0:13.1 | I'm very excited for today's episode. |
| 0:15.8 | I usually record a separate introduction, but because of our very special guest today, |
| 0:22.3 | we are just going to record a quick little intro and get right into it. And as always, if you love what you hear, please |
| 0:28.6 | scroll down to the bottom of the show page on Apple Podcasts and give seeing other people a five-star |
| 0:33.7 | rating and a lovely review. If you like the episode and have someone in mind who would |
| 0:39.8 | benefit from hearing it, definitely text it to them, text it to your whole group chat, |
| 0:43.9 | text it to your friends, your family friends, your relatives, whoever, person you met last |
| 0:51.0 | week at a bar, send it around. The more people we can get to listen, the more we can continue doing the show. And of course, if you have not checked out our Patreon, |
| 0:59.3 | head to patreon.com slash seeing other people doing some awesome stuff over there, like bonus episodes |
| 1:04.1 | and happy hours and profile reviews. So we will have a one-on-one meeting and I will actually |
| 1:10.5 | revamp your profile so that you |
| 1:12.0 | can really find what you're looking for and hopefully find someone great. So without further ado, |
| 1:17.7 | today we have my older brother, Andrew, on the podcast. And I think we're both a little nervous. |
| 1:26.4 | This is going to be interesting, guys. |
| 1:27.9 | This is going to be a fun. |
| 1:29.0 | It's going to be a wild ride. |
| 1:30.8 | Hello, brother. |
| 1:32.5 | Hey, sister. |
| 1:33.4 | How's it going? |
| 1:35.0 | Oh, man. |
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