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The Dating Detectives

Confessions of a Dogfish

The Dating Detectives

Dear Media

True Crime, 448526, Comedy, Relationships, Society & Culture

4.82.4K Ratings

🗓️ 17 July 2023

⏱️ 39 minutes

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Summary

We have a very special episode today that’s a little bit different. Since we started the show we have wanted to talk to someone who has been on the other side of these stories, and then one day we got an email from a man named Jim who wanted to come on do exactly that. Today Jim, a recovering chronic cheater and sex addict, tells us his story to share the red flags that women missed while dating him. Along with Jim we have Marnie Breeker & Duane Osterlind of the Helping Couples Heal podcast to give us some insight on sex addiction and betrayal trauma.


If you or someone you know relates to anything you heard on today's show please visit https://helpingcouplesheal.com/resources/ for information on books, podcasts, hotlines, and in person/ virtual mental health care.


***The following Program contains names, places and events that have been anonymized or fictionalized for the purposes of protection and safety. The following Program is provided for entertainment purposes only and any commentary from the hosts are strictly conjecture and should not be held as making any definitive statements about the truth or identity of any particular individuals or circumstances.

If you or a loved one are involved in an abusive relationship, please call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 for support.***

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0:00.0

The following program contains names, places, and events that have been anonymized or

0:04.4

fictionalized for the purposes of protection and safety. The following program is provided for

0:09.1

entertainment purposes only and any commentary from the hosts are strictly conjecture and should not be held as making

0:14.4

any definitive statements about the truth or identity of any particular individuals or circumstances. If you or a loved one are involved in an abusive relationship,

0:23.0

please call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800, 799, 723 for support.

0:30.3

I'm 40 years old. I was married 12 years years I've been divorced for a couple months and I slept

0:36.4

with 25 women during my marriage. Hi Hannah.

0:47.0

Hey!

0:48.0

So, um, listen, I have to get right into it because I'm kind of excited. I love Monday mornings because new

0:54.7

episode of dating detectives but I have to give you a little tip for today's episode.

0:58.8

Yeah everybody like buckle in so basically today we have a guest on who was a dogfish

1:07.3

he will tell you his tail but he's done some shit and in addition to being a dogfish he is also a recovering

1:16.4

sex addict in the 12-step program and we also brought on to experts of sex addiction like marriage and family

1:24.8

therapist because we had a lot of questions and you know sex addiction is a

1:30.6

whole thing and we talk about it but dog fishing element of what he did I

1:34.4

think we can take away from no matter what your experience is you don't have to have

1:38.1

gone through exactly the situation that this man Jim went through we can take away a lot from what the expert shared

1:46.6

so thank you for sharing that Hannah because y'all I am like right out the gate not

1:52.2

crazy about this fella yeah

1:53.9

m mickens he's like this dude but this is a very educational episode like

1:59.6

there's a lot to be learned here and so I'm excited for you guys to listen to what I said and maybe I'm

2:06.1

curious to know what you guys take away from it.

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