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The Money with Katie Show

Confessional: Materialism, Worthiness, and Financial “Discipline”

The Money with Katie Show

Money with Katie

Self-improvement, Education, Business, Investing, How To

4.81.3K Ratings

🗓️ 17 August 2022

⏱️ 41 minutes

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Summary

The central thesis for this episode is that when you think you have a spending problem, what you probably have is a purpose problem. This week, we’re getting philosophical—and I’m diving into a series of realizations I had when transitioning from Spendy McSpenderson to Sally Saver, about the role money played in my life pre- and post-”baptism by FI/RE.” (See what I did there?) I also chat with mindset and manifestation expert Haley Hoffman Smith (https://www.haleyhoffmansmith.com/) on the void money creates and what we should be aiming for instead. It’s one of the more vulnerable episodes I’ve published, but my hope is that it’ll inspire you to reflect in a way you haven’t before about your relationship with materialism and its role in your sense of self. — CORRECTION/CLARIFICATION: Thanks to an email from astute listener Emily T., it has come to my attention that my answer for today’s Rich Girl Roundup could be a bit misleading to the point of being wrong depending on how you inherited your individual stock. The answer given in the video is relevant *if the relative who gifted you stock is still alive.* If your relative who gifted you stock has passed away, then your cost basis actually receives something called the “stepped-up cost basis” treatment, which means the amount you inherit at the time they pass is the new cost basis. If you were to sell that immediately, you’d incur no capital gains taxes. We have re-recorded a clarification that’s now live in the episode, but we apologize for the confusion. — Mentioned in the Episode - The Hot Girl Hamster Wheel: https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cc5dZNLvRNN/ and https://moneywithkatie.com/blog/high-maintenance-is-expensive-how-i-went-from-a-320mo-girly-budget-to-a-negligible-one - Brad Yates: https://www.tapwithbrad.com/ — Follow Along - Listen to Money with Katie here: https://www.podpage.com/money-with-katie-show/ - Read Money with Katie: https://moneywithkatie.com/ Follow Money with Katie! - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moneywithkatie/ - Twitter: https://twitter.com/moneywithkatie - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moneywithkatie Subscribe to Morning Brew - Sign up for free today: https://bit.ly/morningbrewyt Follow The Brew! - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/morningbrew/ - Twitter: https://twitter.com/MorningBrew - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@morningbrew Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome back rich girls and boys to the Money with Katie Show.

0:09.6

I'm your host, Katie Yaddi Tossan, and today we are getting existential.

0:20.2

I've been trying to find the right words to articulate these feelings for a long time

0:25.7

and recently the ideas finally began to assemble themselves into a cogent manner.

0:33.2

We are discussing money's role in our own worthiness, materialism, and consumerism, and more

0:40.4

broadly, purpose.

0:42.6

Our guest today is Haley Hoffman-Smith, a manifestation mindset expert once named Forbes

0:49.2

Most Influential Speaker, a first founder on Instagram, and I found her content to be super

0:54.9

interesting from a subconscious behavior angle.

0:58.2

And if you think I overly dabble in the woo-woo on this show, after today's episode, I think

1:03.7

you might have a deeper sense of why.

1:07.2

So this episode was inspired by a question that I get from time to time when I jokingly

1:13.0

refer to myself as a reformed materialist, referencing my old shopaholic tendencies and

1:20.3

my previous inability to save money.

1:23.2

And it always goes something like this, hey, how do you flip the switch from being a

1:27.9

spender to a saver?

1:29.6

Or how do you find the discipline to stop spending money on things that you don't need?

1:35.9

And I would reflect on that question a lot because candidly, I don't find myself to

1:39.9

be an overly disciplined person.

1:41.7

I would bet that I value my own comfort and convenience more than your average person.

1:47.7

And I have a hard time forcing myself to do things that I don't want to do.

1:52.6

In retrospect, it's kind of amazing that my evolution from spending McSpenderson to

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