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Communicating with the Opposite Gender

Mufti Menk

Muslim Central

Society & Culture, Religion & Spirituality, Islam

4.83.1K Ratings

🗓️ 21 October 2020

⏱️ 3 minutes

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0:30.0

It may be you will have to interact at some point with the opposite sex those who are not related to you and not Mahram.

0:36.8

How should you interact with them? I tell you there is one word. Very respectfully.

0:42.8

You might say those are two words. Well very is only descriptive. But when it comes to respectfully you need to understand that's the word.

0:50.6

Be very respectful. Treat them as though they are, you know, the the favor of Allah upon you,

0:58.5

the opportunity Allah has given you to address the opposite sex it should be absolutely respectful.

1:04.2

It's an act of worship to respect others and don't ever address a person in a very cheap way, in a very derogatory way, vulgar, abusive etc.

1:15.6

Or just without having any shame, you know, shameless way people just address others as though they have no scruples.

1:24.6

May Allah SWT grant us an understanding. So I am here today to tell you please respect the opposite sex and even the same gender.

1:34.5

Respect all human beings. Make sure when you address them you bear in mind all the rules and regulations, you know, the rule of controlling your gaze and lowering it,

1:44.6

the rule of speaking in a good tone, choosing good words, getting to the point, you know, not saying that which is unnecessary, irrelevant,

1:53.2

going into perhaps details that are embarrassing and so on, that which is unnecessary, putting people into a spot in, you know, in a corner and so on.

2:02.8

Remember that. Let's speak to others respectfully. We will have to interact. I interact, you interact, we all have to interact.

2:09.4

I don't know of anyone who says I've never had to in my life or will never have to interact with the opposite sex.

2:16.2

You will. You're a human being and you need to do so respectfully. You need to understand the regulations, the rules, to the best of your ability and capacity.

2:26.3

You will address them and inshallah use the best words because Allah is watching and whatever you've said is recorded and it will be held for you or against you.

2:35.2

Wouldn't you like on the day of judgment, beautiful book to come out and this is the way you address the opposite sex.

2:41.4

Every word you said is held for you and not against you. May Allah SWT let that happen for us.

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