Then he reaches across, because you know, we separated a little bit.

Right. He reaches across and very gently, he caresses my face.

And then he says to me, in his beautiful voice,

that was some damn good s***.

Hello, I'm Dim Adiwamy.

Hi, I'm Nicole Perkins.

We're writers and cultural critics.

And we're the host of a brand new podcast and Buzzfeed called First Aid Pit.

We're all very familiar, I think, with lust, desire.

And in my language, fancying someone, those things are the situation as is, okay?

That's a state of being, okay?

You lust after someone, you desire someone.

For me, first is the performance of that desire.

Bill says, and I quote,

Where about to watch Star Trek?

Again, I'm excited to see John Cho.

Finally, it feels Christmasy in my pants.

And she has a little smiley face.

Not enough women talk about their lust, like a lot of women keep it under wraps,

because whether or not they've been told explicitly to.

Right. You know, it's like good girls don't.

Right. Right? But good girls do.

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