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Making Gay History | LGBTQ Oral Histories from the Archive

Coming of Age During the 1970s: Chapter 4: Respectable

Making Gay History | LGBTQ Oral Histories from the Archive

Making Gay History

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🗓️ 25 May 2023

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Gay rights activists in NYC are first out of the gate to propose anti-discrimination legislation, confident it will sail through the City Council. Instead, they hit a wall of ignorance and bigotry. Meanwhile, 15-year-old Eric happens upon some revelatory literature in his dentist’s waiting room. Visit our episode webpage for additional resources, archival photos, and a transcript of the episode. For exclusive Making Gay History bonus content, join our Patreon community. ——— To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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Hi History Makers, Eric here. A few months ago we launched Making Gay History's Patreon

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0:37.1

And thank you so much.

0:42.2

We're jumping around in the timeline again, heading back to a moment before Bob and my

0:47.3

own special summer of love. Before Reverend Mullen, before all that. I'm Eric Marcus.

0:53.4

This is coming of age during the 1970s. Chapter 4. Respectable.

1:02.5

I'm at the dentist with a suspected cavity. Going to Dr. Tidalbaum, who's a German Jewish

1:08.1

refugee, is always fraught, because getting a tooth drilled is excruciating. He doesn't

1:14.5

use anesthetic. It's late 1974 and I'm about to turn 16. I didn't even know that Nova

1:21.7

became an option. This would be my 14th filling. While sitting by myself in the sunny waiting

1:29.9

room, I tried to distract myself by picking up a magazine from the stack on the side table.

1:36.0

As I flip through its pages, my eye is drawn to a story called consenting adult. It's

1:41.4

an excerpt of assumed to be published novel. It's about a mother and her journey to accepting

1:46.0

her gay son. I'd never read anything about gay anything before, and I'm riveted. But

1:53.4

not so riveted that I don't look up between paragraphs to make sure that the receptionist

1:57.2

Mrs. Bloom, who is my classmate Jane's mother, isn't watching. I read fast, knowing that

2:03.6

I could be called at any time. The story's narrator switches to the son, a very conflicted

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