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On with Kara Swisher

Comedian Tig Notaro on Laughing Through Grief

On with Kara Swisher

New York Magazine

Society & Culture

4.23.2K Ratings

🗓️ 1 December 2025

⏱️ 61 minutes

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Summary

How do you grieve the impending death of a lifelong friend when you are a multi-hyphenate comedian, actor, director and producer? If you are Tig Notaro, you produce a film about their life and work — as she has done for the late spoken word poet Andrea Gibson with the documentary Come See Me In The Good Light. Best known for her dry-witted stand up comedy, Tig is also a podcaster (Handsome), actor (Star Trek: Discovery, The Morning Show), director (Am I Ok?) and producer for film and television. Kara and Tig discuss the documentary, Gibson’s life and relationship with their wife Meg Falley after they were diagnosed with incurable cancer, how Andrea’s death opened her up to experiencing grief in a new way, and how it all relates to Tig's own 2012 cancer diagnosis, which she shared on stage in a genre-breaking set. Plus: how the comedy world is shifting under Trump and Tig’s plans for an all-lesbian action film. Questions? Comments? Email us at on@voxmedia.com or find us on YouTube, Instagram, TikTok, Threads, and Bluesky @onwithkaraswisher. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

All I want is a believable lesbian playing me.

0:02.3

What about me?

0:03.3

You're too old.

0:04.6

Damn it.

0:05.1

It's on.

0:21.2

My friend. My guest today is comedian TIGM. Hi, everyone from New York Magazine and the Vox Media Podcast Network. This is on with Kara Swisher,

0:27.5

and I'm Kara Swisher. My guest today is comedian TIG Nataro. She's best known for her dry-witted stand-up comedy, but she's also a podcaster, actor, director, and producer for film and television,

0:33.0

including, most recently, the documentary, Come See Me in the Good Light about the spoken word poet Andrea Gibson.

0:40.3

The film documents Gibson's life in relationship with their wife, Meg, after being diagnosed with incurable cancer.

0:47.2

I've met TIG a number of times at a variety of events, and I've always thought she was one of the most outstanding standupsups around and, of course, got well known after her own cancer diagnosis when she started talking about it on stage.

1:01.1

It also broke the ice for other comics to talk about death and grief in their sets.

1:05.9

I wanted to talk to TIG about that legacy, how she thinks about how comedy is shifting.

1:10.6

She's also been amazing on the morning show, playing a chief of staff of a tech giant,

1:14.6

she's doing an absolutely perfect job as one of the most heinous people I've ever encountered

1:19.2

in my reporting career.

1:21.6

I also want to hear about her career moves and where she wants to go next.

1:25.5

Our expert question comes from Pulitzer Prize winning writer Geraldine Brooks,

1:29.5

whom I interviewed earlier this year about her memoir, Memorial Days,

1:33.3

which is about the sudden death of our husband.

1:35.9

This may sound dark, but it's actually very uplifting,

1:38.8

especially in this time we're focusing on things to be grateful for.

1:43.0

You'll be grateful for this interview, I think,

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