Codependency vs. Narcissism, Shame vs. Guilt, Self Acceptance, & Intimacy - Q&A With Darlene Lancer, LMFT

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

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Self-improvement, Education, Society & Culture, Relationships

4.8 • 740 Ratings

🗓️ 22 October 2021

⏱️ 46 minutes

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Brandon talks with Darlene Lancer (LMFT) about codependency vs. narcissism, shame vs. guilt, self acceptance, & intimacy. Plus they discuss, perfectionism, compulsion, core feelings, abandonment, emotional availability, imposter syndrome, and much more. They even have a giggle when Brandon realizes he has more issues than he thought. ***There are a few different types of sounds due to audio changes and a very brief plane noise in the background that we didn't hear while recording. Our apologies.*** You can find Darlene Lancer at her website https://whatiscodependency.com/ or at https://darlenelancer.com/ Here is a link to all the blogs mentioned on the show https://whatiscodependency.com/blog/ Links to Darlene's very well reviewed books Codependency For Dummies and Conquering Shame & Codependency A big thank you to Apple Podcasts. Subscribe to our show on Apple by clicking here. Thank you to our sponsor BETTERHELP. If you need online counseling from anywhere in the world, please do go to https://www.betterhelp.com/nap Get started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. *** If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. To listen to the Toxic Workplace Podcast, click here. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA Join our Tiktok at https://www.tiktok.com/@narcissistapocalypse If you want to be a guest on our show, go to https://narcissistapocalypse.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:22.6	com.uk. On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse Q&A, we talk with licensed marriage and family
0:31.4	therapist, Darlene Lancer about codependency versus narcissism, shame versus guilt, self-acceptance, and intimacy. Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse Q&A, everyone.
1:15.5	Today on our show, we have licensed marriage and family therapist, Darlene Lancer.
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