All right, today we're going to talk about how to coach someone into a successful long-term relationship, right?

That's a lot of people's goals.

How do you coach someone who that's their goal?

Like, hey, hey, I want to be in a successful long-term relationship.

It's the one thing I want before I die, as one of our students over here said.

Yeah, how do you do that? Well, I'm going to do a high level on this. Okay, there's obviously,

this is a multi-layered answer. But if that is your client, then you're going to need to do a few things here.

Number one, you've got to be living, practicing good, solid, long-term friendships, and

relationships. So that doesn't mean you have to be successfully married

or successfully in a long-term partnership,

but it does mean you need to have successful relationships

with other humans.

And if that's not you, you need to get to work

and start working your ass off

to understand what it takes to be living inside of good, healthy, solid relationships, right?

Where you have each other's backs, where you repair after conflict and you own your part, you empathize, you validate feelings, you act like an adult, right?

You can fall down, you can blame, you can do all the things that we all do, but you've got to be

able to recover. Because if you don't do that, then you, it's impossible for you to guide

someone else to get inside of those

kind of relationships. And let me clarify something. Again, you don't need to be happily

married or have your shit figured out. I'm not talking about that. That is important. You want to work toward that because I think you're going to be a better

guide and you're going to have more confidence coming from your own direct experience.

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