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The Carey Nieuwhof Leadership Podcast

CNLP 737 | Toxic Masculinity and the Church: Derwin Gray on Using Ministry to Heal Childhood Wounds, Lessons from the NFL, and The Challenge of Finding the Right Team

The Carey Nieuwhof Leadership Podcast

Carey Nieuwhof

Management, Business

4.82.2K Ratings

🗓️ 24 June 2025

⏱️ 68 minutes

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Summary

Derwin Gray talks about toxic masculinity and how it plays out in the NFL, the culture, and the church.

Plus, insights on using ministry to heal childhood wounds and the challenge of finding the right staff in a growing church. 

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0:00.0

Well, welcome to the podcast. We're going to get to today's interview in just a moment.

0:03.3

But one of my favorite segments this year has been the State of the Church update.

0:06.5

We do one of these a month.

0:08.1

And David Kinnaman is here with me.

0:10.0

He is the CEO of the Barna group.

0:11.9

And David has been doing with the Barna team a lot of research this year.

0:15.5

There's fresh data every single month to profile the state of the church.

0:19.4

And today, we're going to look at how pastors

0:21.6

are doing. This is a story that you and I have tracked for years, David. Pastors obviously took a

0:27.3

huge hit during COVID. Are they flourishing? For a while, we weren't. But you have some new metrics

0:32.3

that I'd love you to walk us through. And it's not bad news, actually. It's encouraging.

0:37.4

It is encouraging. Yeah.

0:38.5

And we have seen some hard days for pastors as we've been hearing from them and talking to them,

0:43.2

especially over the last four or five years, you know, the low point that we saw after COVID.

0:49.4

But we're here with some new metrics on flourishing. And what we're proud to report is the pastors

0:54.0

are actually doing pretty well overall.

0:56.9

We look at some of the different ways that they're experiencing relationships and health

1:02.5

and financial and vocational and faith flourishing.

1:06.2

And overall, the two areas where they seem to be doing as well or better than the national average is in terms of faith, not surprisingly.

1:14.3

Hopefully, hopefully we are spiritually relatively healthy.

1:17.6

That's right. At least they're telling us so.

1:19.7

And then finances, which is a surprise because most pastors, the average income for a senior pastor is around 76,000, almost 77,000, just under 77,000.

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