Welcome to today's edition of the Clay Travis and Buck Sexton Show podcast.

Welcome back in, hour number two. Clay Travis, Buck Sexton Show. I hope all of you are having

a great Friday. During a commercial break, Ali came in, a great producer, Ali.

She said, well, you had three kids. You know, your wife went back to work.

Some people might think, well, I have a good life now. We didn't have much money when we had our

first kid, but like I was 28 years old. I had to work. My wife had to go back to work soon after

that baby was born. And we're doing well financially now. But there are a lot, I know that feeling of

when you have a baby and you look at the baby and you think, oh my goodness, I have a responsibility

financially, like there are lots of different responsibilities you have from having a kid. And

one of my primary thoughts when we had kids was I got to work a lot harder than I did before when

I was just me and my wife, because now I have a child to be responsible for. So maybe I'm

psychologically different than a lot of some of those people out there who are, who are obsessed

with the idea of paternity leave, because my first thought was not, hey, I've got to make sure

that I bond with the baby and stay home from work. My first thought was I got to work harder

to make sure that this baby is taken care of in a way that there that our family is going to be

able to thrive. That like I felt more responsibility to provide. I think that's how most men feel.

So the idea that buck and you don't at some point you I'm curious when you have your child.

I'm working on it. I'm working on it. You know, we want you to get married first. Yeah, that's

the plan. Yeah, but that was my primary thought. And I think there are probably a lot of dads out

there. And I think there are a lot of women also that when they have a kid, they think even more,

we got to make sure that we take care of them. Well, there's there's a couple of women,

friends of mine who actually listening to this show who were texting me right as we took a

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