Hi everybody. Welcome to the Women's Dating and Confidence podcast. My name is Amber, and today we're going to talk about circumstance confusion.

Before we get into that, I want to share with you my free guide called

copy and paste texts for when he's pulling away or acting flaky. And the link for that is going to be

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would like my input on it, then go ahead and schedule that call. All right. So let's talk about

circumstance confusion. So the other day, I was really excited and I wrote a note in my phone about a thought that I had. And it was just a way of

clarifying for me how I would explain belief, like the act of believing and what it means to

believe in the result that you want to create no matter what. And so what I wrote down was a belief is a fact

in your mind regardless of the circumstance or the result. So a belief is a thought, but it's more than a

thought. It's a thought that you believe in so much that it's a

fact to you. So you could definitely use this to go crazy, but I think it's very useful when it comes to

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