meta_pixel
Tapesearch Logo
Log in
The One You Feed

Christine Hassler

The One You Feed

Eric Zimmer

Education, Self-improvement, Religion & Spirituality, Health & Fitness, Buddhism, Mental Health

4.62.5K Ratings

🗓️ 8 October 2014

⏱️ 54 minutes

🧾️ Download transcript

Summary

Christine Hassler left her successful job as a Hollywood agent at 25 to pursue a life she could be passionate about . . . but it did not come easily. After being inspired by her own unexpected challenges and experiences, she realized her journey was indeed her destination. In 2005, she wrote the first guidebook written exclusively for young women, entitled 20 Something 20 Everything. Christine’s second book, The 20 Something Manifesto written for men and women stems from her experience coaching twenty-something’s. Her newest book Expectation%20Hangover: Overcoming Disappointment in Work, Love, and LifeExpectation Hangover: Overcoming Disappointment in Work, Love and Life is the guidebook for how to treat disappointment on the emotional, mental, behavioral and spiritual levels.
In This Interview Christine and I Discuss...

The One You Feed parable.
Her favorite books and authors.
How we don’t have control but we do have choice.
What an expectation hangover is.
The three things that cause expectation hangovers.
The three types of expectation hangovers.
The ways we try and cope with expectation hangovers that don’t work.
Learning to feel our emotions instead of trying to talk ourselves out of it.
The spiritual bypass.
That an untreated expectation hangover can lead to addiction.
Our overwhelming fear of emotions.
How unexpressed emotions can lead to other problems.
Suppression = depression.
Pendulum thinking.
How we tend to think our emotions instead of feeling them.
The difference between releasing and recycling feelings.
One of our favorite books-Pema Chodron- When Things Fall Apart.
Not indulging or repressing emotions.
The stories we tell ourselves about our emotions.
How the desire of our ego and the direction of our soul are often headed in different direction.
The four components of the Expectation Hangover treatment plan.
Role Playing Rx.
Her 21 years on anti-depressants.
Dealing with depression.
Feeling lonely in a group of people.
Form versus essence.
Thinking about how we want to feel.
How looking for things to make us happy is a losing strategy.

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcript

Click on a timestamp to play from that location

0:00.0

An affirmation that I just say because I'm trying to make myself feel better is different

0:06.0

than when I'm saying something authentically because I believe it.

0:17.2

Welcome to the one you feed.

0:19.0

Throughout time, great thinkers have recognized the importance of the thoughts we have,

0:23.8

quotes like garbage in, garbage out, or you are what you think, ring true.

0:29.4

And yet, for many of us, our thoughts don't strengthen or empower us.

0:33.6

We tend toward negativity, self-pity, jealousy, or fear.

0:38.4

We see what we don't have instead of what we do.

0:41.2

We think things that hold us back and dampen our spirit.

0:44.7

But it's not just about thinking.

0:46.7

Our actions matter.

0:48.1

It takes conscious, consistent, and creative effort to make a life worth living.

0:53.0

This podcast is about how other people keep themselves moving in the right direction,

0:57.4

how they feed their good walls.

1:16.0

Hi, I'm Frida.

1:17.4

And I'm Arty.

1:18.6

We have spent the last 20 years building and working at some of the largest companies in the world.

1:23.7

We work with some remarkable people, Rob McElenny.

1:26.8

When I see the people of Rex and I grew up exactly like them.

1:29.7

Check out the Arty and Trinom show.

1:31.8

That is AAR, D-H-I, and S-R-I-R-A-M show.

1:38.8

Listen to the Arty and Trinom show on the iHeart.edu app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcasts.

...

Please login to see the full transcript.

Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Eric Zimmer, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.

Generated transcripts are the property of Eric Zimmer and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.

Copyright © Tapesearch 2025.