This is a show about individual experience and personal identity.

There may be times when folks use identifying words or phrases that don't feel right to you.

That's part of what we're exploring here.

Please listen with an open heart, and as always, I welcome your polite, engaged feedback,

and I encourage you to continue the conversation in your own life and with your own community.

Welcome to Query.

Hey Queros, Cammy here.

I have had to take a prolonged leave of absence from the show.

You're going to hear more about that soon, but I'm so glad to be back.

And I thank you for your patience and continued support.

You want to support the show on Patreon?

Sure.

Go to patreon.com slash Hey Queros.

I'd love that.

That would mean so much to me.

Also, I am going to be doing some stand up.

You go to cameranessbusierow.com and look at all of the stand updates.

Well, actually, I should, you know what I should do is update my website.

I'm realizing as I said that.

But also today on the show, Chris Belcher, who is a professor, a one-time pro-dominatrix, not one time,

but for a stretch of time.

Anyway, and the author of a really excellent memoir called Pretty Baby that I really enjoyed.

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