Jesus is with Judas for three years and then he just becomes an enemy.

And he'd been an enemy the whole time. He had been covert and then it just became overt.

And oftentimes what happens with enemies, they're covert. You don't know that they're enemies until they're exposed.

And then you're like, oh my goodness. I mean, I didn't know this is who you are or what you thought or what you

felt or what you were planning. And so Lane 8 is as far away as possible. Keep the enemies over there.

Howdy, folks, welcome back to the Real Marriage podcast this season. We are talking about relationships.

We all have many different relationships in our lives and none more

important than our relationship with Christ and our spouse. But are there other relationships in

your life that are hurting your most important ones? That's what we're talking about today.

Welcome to talk number four. We're talking about real relationships.

And today we want to use kind of an analogy, relationship lanes.

Sometimes when you're dealing with people and how to have a relationship with them or how

to not have a relationship with them, it gets very personal because you're dealing with

individuals.

I thought it might be helpful to pull back and just deal a little more categorically.

Yeah.

And think of all the people that are in your life, kind of like lanes on a highway.

That's going to be the analogy.

And as you're driving, everybody's got to stay in their lane.

And if somebody doesn't stay in their lane, everything ends really, really bad.

Crashes.

Yes.

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