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Psychology In Seattle Podcast

Choosing Childless

Psychology In Seattle Podcast

Kirk Honda

Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.61.2K Ratings

🗓️ 28 October 2024

⏱️ 137 minutes

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Summary

Kids or no kids? How do we decide? Dr Kirk interviews fellow therapist Jess Flynn about her decision to not have children. Jess Flynn can be found at: https://jess-flynn-therapy.clientsecure.me/

This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month.

00:00 Introducing Jesamie & mortality
09:32 Respectfully childless
14:15 Jesamie's background
27:26 Discussing children
38:12 Religion & ego death 
1:11:47 Questioning whether to have children
1:27:12 Considering your health
1:34:10 What if I make the wrong choice?
1:50:17 Working with children
2:12:40 Jess Flynn the Therapist

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October 28, 2024

The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

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0:00.0

Hey deserving listeners, we have a special guest with us on the podcast today.

0:04.8

Jessamy, welcome to the podcast again after 30 or 10 years or something since you were on the podcast last.

0:12.1

Or wait, you've been on the podcast a number of times I think just two okay you

0:16.8

came on as a student after family of origin ten years ago and then you came on you came to like the podcast parties that we

0:27.5

would have where there'd be like a crowd of people and other kinds of things.

0:31.2

Yeah I think just one of those I had the first one with just Jamie and I and then right one of those things. So welcome back to the podcast Jessamy. Thank you. I just got done telling Bob he I haven't seen him in three months because of a number of, usually

0:46.9

we see each other every week or every two weeks, but he and I have just been, you know, like out of town or busy or something and so I finally got to see him and in the course of the conversation

1:01.5

came out that I pogo it off my head he didn't hear about that he

1:05.4

didn't listen to that episode so it just came up kind of randomly in a conversation so I was

1:09.0

telling him about that and then a part of that you know how you how you almost

1:11.7

almost died yeah it was a part of that. You know how you almost died. Yeah, it was a part of the conversation. It was a meandering thing, but anyway, then as I'm telling him, I start thinking that Bob is starting to cry. And I'm thinking he's not going to be he's not

1:24.6

crying right now because we're not talking about something that would cause him

1:27.8

to cry because and I'm talking kind of jokingly about poo going off my head. Well then

1:32.4

it becomes undeniable that he's crying and I

1:35.9

and I blurred out in the middle of the episode. Are you crying? And he's like

1:40.7

yeah and I'm like what? He's like well I, he says, I don't want you to die.

1:45.1

And I was like, oh no, no, and I'm like, well, good, thank you for crying about that.

1:51.1

That's a good thing to cry about. And also don't you know I was stupid and I don't want to die either and but it's nice of you to cry there but I don't want to drag you down with my stupidity.

2:03.0

And then that led me to talk on the podcast

2:06.4

to tell Bob about how I got an email from you.

2:09.8

And it was an out of the blue email in which you didn't, I don't think, refer to the

2:15.6

pogo wing off my head, but you were like, hey I just wanted to tell you, even

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