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Trying Not to Care

Choose Peace Over Proving a Point

Trying Not to Care

Ashley Corbo

Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Education, Self-improvement, Mental Health, Relationships

4.82.1K Ratings

🗓️ 23 March 2026

⏱️ 24 minutes

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Summary

Some people aren't looking for a resolution...they're looking for conflict. Instead of constantly defending yourself, over-explaining your boundaries, and engaging with someone who thrives on fighting, choose to walk away. Protect your peace over trying to prove a point.

Today's episode covers...
❤️‍🩹 Some people are committed to misunderstanding you
❤️‍🩹 There’s no point in arguing with someone who’s ego is more important than your relationship 
❤️‍🩹 The difference between someone who wants resolution vs. someone who wants to win
❤️‍🩹Don’t blame a clown for acting like a clown, blame yourself for going to the circus 

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Hello and welcome to or welcome back to training to care. If you're new here, my name's

0:04.8

Ashley and I upload every single Monday. So last week's episode, I talked about how being misunderstood

0:10.6

is actually a good thing and not such a bad thing like we all think it is. When you're misunderstood

0:15.5

by someone who you cannot relate to, someone who you wouldn't want to trade places with,

0:19.8

someone who you don't necessarily like or respect, it not only separates the someone who you wouldn't want to trade places with, someone who you don't necessarily

0:21.4

like or respect. It not only separates the two of you and makes space for more people who are like

0:27.0

you, but it also reaffirms the kind of person you are. Today's episode is like a sister episode to that one.

0:33.9

I want to talk about choosing peace over proving a point. There's going to be people who you

0:39.2

meet or that you have strong relations with who you cannot get through to. People who don't

0:44.6

understand you or they choose not to understand you. And for your own good, it's best to leave it that

0:51.0

way and not try to change their mind or fight with someone who is

0:55.1

literally only looking for a fight. We're going to talk about how some people are committed to

0:59.4

misunderstand you, ego is getting the way of resolution, people who seek conflict, and then

1:05.8

deciding to call it quits with a clown. So with all that being said, let's just get right into today's episode.

1:12.6

One of the reasons that I don't buy into this idea that if you don't have a lot of friends or

1:16.4

you've gone through a lot of friendship breakups, that you are the problem and you don't know how

1:21.6

to keep friends is a lot of these people who are struggling to maintain friendships are actually some of the most

1:29.0

honest friends, not all the time, but from my own experience and from what I've seen, these people

1:35.7

aren't afraid of confrontation. They're the ones who are going to go out of their way to

1:40.5

approach their friend with a problem because they want to work through it rather than,

1:44.9

you know, biting their tongue and allowing resentment to build up. The issue is not everyone has

1:51.4

that same mindset. They don't like confrontation. And when it's brought to them, rather than working

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