Child Won’t Follow Rules, Not Motivated by Rewards or Consequences, Gets Angry When Say No
Calm Parenting Podcast
Kirk Martin
4.7 • 1.4K Ratings
🗓️ 7 August 2024
⏱️ 26 minutes
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Child Won’t Follow Rules, Not Motivated by Rewards or Consequences, Gets Angry When Say No
How do I get my strong-willed child to follow rules if rewards and consequences don’t work? What do I do with a child who gets angry when I say no? This is an extremely important podcast because until you learn to give your kids ownership of their choices, you will have endless power struggles. Kirk gives you examples!
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| 1:57.9 | So how do I get my strong-willed child to follow rules if rewards don't interest him |
| 2:04.6 | and consequences don't deter him? What do I do with a child who gets angry when I say no? This is an |
| 2:13.4 | extremely foundational important podcast because until you learn to give your kids' ownership |
| 2:18.7 | of their choices, you will have endless power struggles. So I'm going to teach you how to give |
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