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Charles Spencer's memoir 'A Very Private School' opens up about boarding school abuse

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πŸ—“οΈ 27 March 2024

⏱️ 12 minutes

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A new memoir by historian Charles Spencer, 9th Earl Spencer and brother of Princess Diana, details a difficult childhood marked by alleged physical and sexual abuse at Britain's Maidwell Hall in the 1970s. In today's episode, Spencer tells NPR's Scott Simon how childhood naivete – thinking his parents were all-knowing authorities who must've known about the school's cruelty when they sent him there – prevented him and others from speaking up about what was happening, and why writing A Very Private School felt like an important reclamation of his boyhood.


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0:00.0

Hey, it's Empire's Book of the Day. I'm Andrew Limbaugh. It's common to ask victims of abuse who kept

0:08.4

quiet. Why didn't you say anything? Why didn't you tell anyone? And I'm not denigrating the question.

0:13.9

As a reporter, I think it needs to be asked because the answer can have different shapes,

0:18.2

different ways of seeing the world. Charles Spencer's new memoir is titled A Very Private School,

0:23.5

and it details a boyhood spent at a boarding school, allegedly full of abusive teachers.

0:28.6

And when Emperor Scott Simon asks,

0:30.8

why didn't you or any of the other boys say anything?

0:34.3

Spencer says this line.

0:35.7

He goes, quote, we had no context to our lives, which I think is

0:39.9

such a powerful way of phrasing the naivete that comes with childhood. After the break, he goes into

0:45.3

more detail as to what he means by that and gets into the specifics of what went on at the school.

0:51.4

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1:03.7

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1:10.4

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1:15.7

Charles Spencer's new memoir about his five years at a posh British boys' school is often sad and shocking.

1:23.8

Presents individual teacher staff and a headmaster at Britain's Madewell Hall in the 1970s,

1:29.9

who were abusive and cruel to students in the most intimate ways.

1:35.7

Much of this discussion may be painful to hear.

1:39.1

His memoir, a very private school.

1:42.6

Charles Spencer, the ninth Earl Spencer, brother of Princess Diana, an author of several

1:47.7

histories, joins us now from London.

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