Charles Spencer: Confronting the Past

Everything Happens with Kate Bowler

Kate Bowler

Society & Culture, Religion & Spirituality, Health & Fitness

4.8 • 5.1K Ratings

🗓️ 29 October 2024

⏱️ 51 minutes

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We need more room to be honest about what it costs when people or institutions fail us. Today's conversation is with Lord Charles Spencer, the 9th Earl Spencer. You might also know him as Princess Diana's brother. His latest book, A Very Private School, is a courageous and beautifully written memoir about his time in an abusive English boarding school that was shrouded in secrets, abuse, and cruelty. While his circumstances may be unlike something you’ve experienced, Charles speaks so candidly and tenderly about his painful childhood and what it has cost him and others too. In this conversation, Kate and Charles discuss: the challenge and catharsis of writing about personal trauma the casual cruelty Charles and his peers endured what happens when our innocence is stolen from us at a young age what healing looks like 50 years later If you liked this conversation, might also like: Rachel Denhollender on getting justice you deserve Tara Westover on how our parents’ best might still not be enough Watch clips from this conversation, read the full transcript, and access discussion questions by clicking here or visiting katebowler.com/podcasts. Follow Kate on Instagram, Facebook, or X (formerly known as Twitter)—@katecbowler. Links to social pages and more available at linktr.ee/katecbowler. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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0:57.0	Who deserves our compassion? Like who has earned our empathy?
1:03.0	Those are odd questions, maybe.
1:07.0	But we all encounter moments or circumstances or people
1:11.0	and toss up our hands and say that is for someone else to care about.
1:16.0	Whether it's an issue that's bigger than our individual self can solve,
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1:28.3	that you know who just has a lot of problems that just keep happening.
1:36.4	And bless you, I have been on that end of the equation before.
1:41.8	Or maybe it's a circumstance that just seems totally out of touch with any reality that you can conceive of, which makes empathy hard.
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1:55.8	What are the bounds of our empathy?
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2:01.6	I just want to hold that question up at any kind of itchiness that it might bring
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