This is an I-Heart podcast. Guaranteed Human. Welcome back to Backshy, Happy Hour. I'm Charity. And I'm Rachel. And we are happy to be back. I feel like it's been a minute. Last time we were in person and this is not how I want to do it, but it's okay. I know after being with you in person, now this is just not going to cut it for me. You need to move to L.A. I know. Or you can move to the East Coast. Even better, honestly. I'm like, don't we have some things we need to facilitate on the East Coast over here, specifically New York City? We absolutely do speaking of New York City and all things

with you. Wedding planning. What's been going on? Catch me up. Wedding planning is in the works.

We are currently talking or figuring out the logistics of our bachelor, bachelorette parties, which is going to be

very exciting. So like that part I feel like is like I guess I'm just like a partyer.

Like I feel like I haven't been stressed in wedding planning, which is like I don't know

if it's a good thing or a bad thing. But for those who don't know, I'm very much a type C person.

So I'm like super fixated on

details, but executing them, not my not my forte. And I get very overwhelmed. So thanks to my

planner, she's obviously handling all of that. But it's honestly been really good. Like we are in,

you know, the crunch crunch hours. But but I mean we're just like kind of getting

even more excited it's kind of like hitting me but then again I'm like wait I'm actually

getting married it's like kind of weird I don't know I know you guys have like your finalized

ideas for destination for the bachelorette or you're like still thinking yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah can you give us any hints

like climate um it's somewhere that we filmed before on the bachelor okay so i'm like we've been

many places so near it down international i'm hearing uh. Uh-huh. Perhaps. Perhaps. Perhaps.

Perhaps. So I'm like, you little sleuthers, get out there and do your work. Oh, my gosh.

So exciting. What about dress? Any more details with the reception dress? I'm having a really hard time.

I'm getting very angry. Um, I'm just not falling in love with things. And it's making me like I'm getting really worried because I don't have a lot of time. Luckily, I'm like my alterations if I have to do any are very minimal. Like I didn't even have to do many alterations on my wedding dress, like the length and everything

was like perfect. But I'm just not, yeah, I just want my reception dress to really be like,

like, you know, I need, like, I need jaws on the ground for both. But like from a reception

specifically, I'm struggling to find one that like I feel that

way. So I have to feel that way before anybody else feels that way. And I'm just probably like

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