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Flying Free

Changing Your Role (Chapter Eight of Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage) Part One [146]

Flying Free

Natalie Hoffman

Emotional, Spiritual, Narcissism, Self-improvement, Marriage, Abuse, Religion & Spirituality, Christian, Divorce, Christianity, Education

5.01.1K Ratings

🗓️ 23 November 2021

⏱️ 26 minutes

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Summary

Do you wonder why you feel so angry and defeated about the way your husband treats you? It's not cause you were a closet rage monster before you got married. It's not cause you're crazy or demanding or that you just love drama. He’s been stomping in your flower beds. And YOU’VE been told that you had to leave the garden gate open in order to be a good wife and a good Christian. If you’ve been wondering "Is it me?" then let's make sense of your confusing marriage in this two-part episode. Episode Highlights: - Boundaries aren't just for countries and sports fields; they're key to healthy relationships and fulfilling, well-balanced lives of peace. - This analogy will cut through the crap you've been fed about why your husband's behavior is your fault (it’s 100% NOT). - I give a pounding to the faulty beliefs that keep you stuck (and make no mistake, beliefs keep us stuck much more often than super glue, bad relationships, a lack of resources, and quicksand combined). - An explanation of your actual responsibility that will SET YOU FREE. Listen or download the transcript at flyingfreenow.com/146 FREE: I'll send you the first chapter of my book, Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage. Just hop on my mailing list at flyingfreesisterhood.com/free-download. (I will NEVER spam you or sell your information.) Desperate for real help and safe people who understand what you're going through? Find out about my online education and support program for women of faith at joinflyingfree.com And, if you are an already divorced Christian woman who wants to take back her life and get healthy, have amazing relationships, build a business or career, or even find a good man - check out joinflyinghigher.com

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hi, this is Natalie Hoffman of Flying Free Now, and you're listening to the Flying Free

0:10.2

podcast, a support resource for women of faith, looking for hope and healing from hidden

0:16.6

emotional and spiritual abuse.

0:21.3

Welcome to episode 146 of the Flying Free Podcast.

0:26.0

Today is a special edition dedicated to the book I wrote three years ago

0:31.0

which has sold over 11,000 copies during that time.

0:35.5

The book is called, Is It Me Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage?

0:39.8

Now, I had no idea if 11,000 copies was a success or not, so I googled it. And according to scribe

0:47.2

media.com, the average traditionally published book sells 3,000 copies over its lifetime and it will typically

0:57.4

sell between 250 to 300 copies the first year. By the way, Amazon is selling about 300 copies of

1:06.6

Is It Me in all the different formats every month right now. So for a traditional publisher, this is again according to scribeMedia.com, for a

1:16.0

traditional publisher to think of a non-fiction book as a success, it has to

1:21.0

sell 10,000 copies over its lifetime.

1:25.0

So far, isn't me as old over 11,000 copies

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and it's increasing in its sales every month, not decreasing.

1:33.8

So I would say that this book has been a success

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and it will continue to be a success

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as long as emotional and spiritual abuse

1:41.9

remain a problem in Christian circles, which is kind of

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unfortunate actually.

1:48.2

Today I want to read a chapter to you.

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I've already offered my first chapter of the book free if you go on my website

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