Changing Your Mind + Investing In Help | 196
Simple
Tsh Oxenreider
4.3 • 879 Ratings
🗓️ 24 May 2019
⏱️ 78 minutes
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In what ways have you changed since high school? If you're normal, you've changed in so many ways you've lost count. Tsh shares how (and about what) she's changed her mind regarding her values, worldview, and perspective in the 20+ years since she graduated. (Spoiler: It's good to change our minds. It means we're growing and willing to learn.)
Crystal then chats about the vital role of people like therapists, coaches of all sorts, counselors and other helping professionals, and the unmistakable importance of investing in their wisdom. Both she and Tsh have benefited from smart, trained, thoughtful humans, and believe every penny budgeted for ongoing help is vital in their maturity and growth.
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| 0:00.0 | This is simple. I'm Tishaukson writer. |
| 0:05.0 | Hey friends, in this episode I'm chatting with my friend and contributing writer |
| 0:15.1 | Crystal Ellison where as always we're talking about what we wrote about this week |
| 0:19.7 | Crystal wrote about the role of people like therapists, coaches of all sorts, counselors, |
| 0:24.9 | and other helping professionals and the huge importance of not only paying them, but also |
| 0:30.3 | for us to invest in having them in our lives, to see them as not extra or only in |
| 0:36.1 | case of emergencies, but as a vital ongoing role in our lives toward our own betterment. |
| 0:41.0 | We've both benefited from these people in our lives, so we get into why we think it's so |
| 0:44.7 | important to welcome help from smart, trained, thoughtful humans when you need it. |
| 0:50.8 | And then this week I wrote about six things I'd tell my graduating self looking back at what I was like at 18 years old and headed off to college in just a few months. |
| 0:59.0 | This all came from my going to our school's graduation where several of my students graduated. |
| 1:05.1 | In this episode I get deeper into one of those six points which was that it's |
| 1:09.9 | okay to change your mind. Here in this chat I get into what exactly I have changed my mind about in the 20 plus years that have passed. |
| 1:18.0 | Now this isn't prescriptive where I'm telling you to change your mind about these things too. I'm simply telling you what's been true for me. |
| 1:25.2 | Even if you've landed somewhere else than I have on some of these issues, I'll bet you anything you can |
| 1:29.9 | resonate with me about what it's like to surprise yourself with what you never thought |
| 1:33.6 | you'd think differently about. Never say never, right? And then a really quick |
| 1:37.4 | reminder, if you haven't yet signed up to get my weekly newsletter called Five Quick Things |
| 1:42.2 | where I send you a short, happy email sharing |
| 1:45.2 | five things I either created or loved from the week. |
| 1:48.3 | It's a great way, actually one of the best ways really, to keep up with new podcast episodes, blog posts, events to where we can meet up and other |
| 1:56.1 | fun stuff. It can be read in under a minute because I hate inbox clutter too. |
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