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Dear Young Married Couple

Changing GENERATIONAL Patterns in your Marriage w/ Montie + Rachael Easter

Dear Young Married Couple

Adam & Karissa King

Sexuality, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Society & Culture, Relationships, Health & Fitness

4.8872 Ratings

🗓️ 30 June 2020

⏱️ 86 minutes

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Summary

Rachael was born by artificial insemination to two moms and moved every few years while Montie grew up witnessing the outgrowth of "street life" and the conflicts that surround gang culture - their story about changing generational patterns in your marriage is one you don't want to miss. “One of the biggest impacts for both us, even when we were just dating, was going to families’ houses in the church and being blown away at the family interactions and all their love. Neither of us had seen that growing up.⁠ It was like a dream to look at them and think ‘We can create that for own family.’” Montie and Rachael Easter How do you pursue a godly relationship that was originally founded by the world’s standards? How do you create a thriving, two-parent household without having that example growing up? Come join the conversation on today's episode. You can find Montie and Rachael on IG: @rachael.easter + @montie_trc⁠   Stay in conversation with us on IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple or on our website: www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com   P.S. Here are the links to the marriage card decks we talk about in the episode: FOUNDATIONS: https://amzn.to/2RaXF7g SEXPECTATIONS: https://amzn.to/2GbVMRA REALIZATIONS: https://amzn.to/3brNTWh Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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So I would see this out in the neighborhood, I would see this extreme definition of what

0:36.3

masculinity was. You got to fight. You cannot cry. You cannot show

0:41.6

emotion. You have to be tough. At the time when I was born, my mom was with a woman. She was

0:48.7

gay. And they had me artificial insemination. So that's why I don't know who my dad is at all.

0:57.0

The whole goal was to have this neutral look.

1:00.0

Having that look, causing that questioning, it will cause people to leave you alone.

1:03.0

You just want to be left alone because of the drama and the dynamics.

1:08.0

The risk of being too friendly, then the risk of being too tough.

1:12.2

And it was just so much stress and so many dynamics that could get you hurt or get you in a world of trouble.

1:20.5

Dear young married couple, you're in a busy season of your life.

1:25.5

You're probably working and involved in ministry.

1:28.5

On top of that, you might even be parents or students.

1:32.5

You're maxed, but you really want to stay connected in your marriage.

1:36.9

And that's why we're bringing this podcast to you.

1:39.5

I'm Adam King.

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And I'm Carissa King.

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And we work with busy couples just like you in our counseling

1:44.4

office here in Sacramento, California. We also work with couples all over the world through

1:48.7

online counseling, and our couples are really just looking for ways to communicate with each

1:53.0

other more effectively. Some of them are looking to heal from a breach and trust, or find

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