There's something so romantic about winter and I don't know whether that's just because

I'm a bit for homebody and I love a 5th but I think it's just the holiday period is just

for me it's the most romantic period and I think anyone who's listened to my records

will know that I'm quite a big fan of romance.

Joy in every sip with red cups now back at Starbucks.

And people really change. The new way of life becomes a habit and that's when you've

made the change. You need to be who you are on purpose.

Well hey everybody it's Dr. Phil again and you're on Phil in the blanks. I have a really

special guest today and this is kind of a self-indulgent podcast for me because I really

had an interest in talking to my guest Lori Gottlieb and I'll tell you why as we go along.

But this is really fascinating to me so I hope it is to you.

Now Lori is a cycle therapist. She's a New York Times bestselling author. Her latest book

is Maybe You Should Talk To Someone which has sold over a million copies and guys I don't

know what you understand about bestselling books but selling a million copies of a book

is a big big deal. Getting on the bestseller list doesn't take selling a million books and

most don't so this is a huge deal and in addition to her clinical practice she's co-hosts

of the popular Dear Therapist podcast which is produced by my good friend Katie Kirk.

She also writes The Atlantic's Weekly Dear Therapist Advice Column. She's really a sought

after expert in the media. You've seen her on the today show GMA CBS this morning, CNN,

NPR's Fresh Air. She did a TED talk which was one of the 10 most watch of the year. I've

watched it and very creative, very informative, really challenged the audience to think about

the story they tell themselves about their own life. She's also the creator of Maybe You

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