How do we remember to put the focus on us and what we need to change, understanding that

that is a requirement, that is a necessary part of the equation, right?

We are probably going to have to show up differently if we want our life to change.

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I draw on different experiences as I'm doing work.

And that kind of inspires me to figure out what it is that I want to talk about at different meetings.

And so I think I can talk about this thing that came up with a client just over the last couple of days.

I was doing one of those two days intensives that I do with people.

And married couple, I was seeing the guy, but married couple, been married for a long time, you know,

I think 22 years. And it was really interesting at the beginning, the first few times we talked, and even the first few hours that we were meeting over the weekend. What kept coming up were all the ways in which he and his wife don't get along,

and all the ways in which, if I'm honest, she gets on his nerves.

I'm paraphrasing, but that was the gist of it.

And it went like that for a long time.

And I was trying to kind of, you guys know how I work, right?

I was kind of trying to get them back to, okay, what can we focus on? What can you do? Because you will

never change anybody, but you can change yourself, right? You can change things yourself. So I was trying

to get him back to that way of thinking all the time. And the reason is simple, look, not all relationships work out, but whether your

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