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🗓️ 28 May 2025
⏱️ 82 minutes
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Cate & Ty sit down with DezaRay, The Outspoken Adoptee, to breakdown the long standing narrative that all adoptees should be grateful, lucky and blessed. In this powerful conversation, Dez shares her deeply personal story of adoption, revealing the harsh realities that often lie beneath the surface of 'lucky' and 'blessed' narratives. From navigating racial identity in a predominantly white community in Utah, to confronting family secrets of sexual and physical abuse. She explains the complexities of reunion, the varied experiences that each adoptee will and can have, and emphasizes the many ways the adoption system needs reform.
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0:00.0 | Hey guys, so welcome back again to Kate and Ty, break it down. |
0:12.6 | Again, thank you for all of the love and the support that we've been receiving. |
0:17.1 | Today we are here with a very dear friend. |
0:20.4 | I want to know, do you prefer by going by Des or Desiree? |
0:25.0 | Des is perfect. |
0:26.4 | Okay. |
0:26.9 | She's the outspoken adoptee on TikTok and Instagram. |
0:31.1 | Yes. |
0:31.9 | Yeah. |
0:32.7 | A couple times over on Instagram. |
0:34.0 | Yeah. |
0:34.9 | And we love your vibes. |
0:36.6 | We love your vibes. Thank you. Truth. Truth needs to be told. Yeah. Yeah. And we love your vibes. Thank you. |
0:38.8 | Truth. |
0:39.4 | Truth needs to be told bluntly, not palitably. |
0:43.7 | And you do that unapologetically. |
0:45.4 | We love it. |
0:46.0 | I've gotten there. |
0:47.1 | Absolutely. |
0:47.9 | Absolutely. |
0:48.2 | How was that like for you though? |
0:49.1 | Did it take time to get there? |
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