CC: Attachment Styles and How They Impact Our Adult Relationships with Ellen Boeder
Life Coaching with Christine Hassler
Christine Hassler
4.8 • 1.7K Ratings
🗓️ 11 December 2021
⏱️ 53 minutes
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Summary
This episode is incredibly educational when it comes to our attachment styles. I talk with licensed psychotherapist Ellen Boeder about how attachment styles are formed, how they impact our adult relationships, and what we can do to heal them so we can have more secure attachments.
A little more about Ellen . . . She has been a therapist since 2003. She has a strong background in yoga and meditation, and her graduate training in Transpersonal Psychology also deeply inform her work. Since getting married 12 years ago, and becoming a mother to two children, Ellen transitioned from working primarily with women to focusing on couples. Ellen is trained in PACT, a therapeutic modality for couples founded by Stan Tatkin, PsyD., that synthesizes attachment theory, neuroscience, and affect regulation models to support couples in creating an enduring and nourishing relationship through secure functioning.
In addition to maintaining a part time private practice, Ellen is on faculty for the Relationship School—a business founded by her husband Jayson Gaddis that provides in depth relationship education for anyone who wants to learn, as well as training for relationship coaches.
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| 0:00.0 | Hi everybody and welcome to Coaches Corner. |
| 0:05.5 | So I have an encore episode for you all today on Coaches Corner because I've been getting |
| 0:10.4 | a lot of questions lately about attachment styles. |
| 0:14.7 | So I wanted to re-air my interview with Ellen Bader. |
| 0:16.8 | Maybe some of you heard it. |
| 0:17.8 | If you only heard it once, it's great to listen to again where she goes through the two basic |
| 0:22.1 | types of attachment style, secure and insecure and the different types of insecure attachment |
| 0:26.8 | styles. |
| 0:27.8 | There's a lot of value out of today's episode. |
| 0:30.7 | One place that you can learn more about attachment styles and personality patterns and just |
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| 0:41.2 | It is where me, my husband and our colleagues Alexi Panos and Preston Smile have created |
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| 0:51.6 | We train you how to be amazing coaches and cover things that other coaching programs don't |
| 0:58.3 | if you miss the conversation I had with my partner Alexi Panos on Coaches Corner last week. |
| 1:03.6 | Go back and have a listen to that. |
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| 1:14.3 | you to go to ElementumCoachingInstitute.com and apply now any questions that you have. |
| 1:20.9 | You can always email Jill at ChristineHaster.com. |
| 1:25.0 | Before we dive in, I also want to thank my sponsor for this episode, which is Organify. |
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