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Assalamu alaikum. You've just caught your spouse cheating. What do you do?

Well, I can tell you it's a very difficult moment because

you probably are very upset,

extremely sad and at times shocked and in disbelief

Emotions are running high, sometimes there might be yelling and screaming happening because of that disbelief

try and calm yourself down, astalfirullah, astalfirullah ala hawla wa laquata illa bi'la calm down. Don't make decisions

Don't make decisions while your emotions are running high and your angry you're upset. Don't make decisions

During those moments calm down. Give it a moment sit down relax, may Allah make it easy

Now, what should you do?

You need to ask yourself a few questions

What exactly did they do? Look at the magnitude of the cheating because cheating is not all on one level

I mean a person who has just sent SMS or messages to someone is very different from a person who regularly

Met up in order to commit the sin of adultery or whatever else it may have been the

Physical intimacy these are very different levels

So it depends what exactly they did what you can prove beyond doubt if something is doubtful

Give them the benefit of your doubt. That's your spouse

But if something is proven beyond doubt it's there

If it is on the highest level

Then you need to look at

What type of a spouse this person is the cheater the one who cheated?

Is he generally a good person and if it's a female is she generally a good person a

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