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It's a very commonly used phrase that it's the little things that make a big

difference and in marriage that's true. Many small things left undelt with can

create large issues and conflicts and how do you address those when they're

small so they don't become big problems? I'm John Fuller along with professional

counselors, Greg and Erin Smolley and we're returning now to a conversation.

Jim Daley and I had with them for a focus on the family broadcast about

reconnecting with your spouse and here's more from that conversation. Aaron let me

ask you in this this roommate I guess comparison you use in the book this

idea of soulmate roommate so elaborate on both of those. We hear we hear this a

lot from couples especially when they're hurting that I've met my soulmate

and so just the world's definition of soulmate just we hate it we don't like it

and so really what we're talking about soulmate in the instance of this book is

that there's one person that you have made this covenant relationship

agreement with kind of a biblical context that the two shall become one and

that one you're saying is like a soulmate. Yes and that you're experiencing the

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