Carmella & The Misogynistic Narcissistic Abuser | Coercive Control, Narcissist Abuse

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

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🗓️ 19 February 2024

⏱️ 80 minutes

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In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Carmella recounts how she found unexpected support from an engaged man during a personal crisis. Their friendship blossomed into romance, and then a pressured proposal, highlighting the struggle of reconciling the whirlwind of emotions with societal expectations and personal apprehension. As we further dissect coercive control dynamics, Carmella examines the effects of controlling behaviors and jealousy, the intense pressure to conform, and the emotional repercussions of a marriage shadowed by a husband's intrusive scrutiny, lack of privacy, and the unequal distribution of domestic responsibilities. Carmella also provides insight into the harrowing effects of escalating physical abuse and control, and the often invisible struggles of co-parenting post-divorce with an uncooperative ex-partner. It's a story of misogyny, pushing boundaries, jealousy, entitlement, physical abuse, custody, post separation abuse, court, divorce, narcissists, narcissism, domestic violence, domestic abuse, rage, bullying, lack of responsibility, emotional abuse, putdowns, financial abuse, lying, infidelity, and generational trauma. *** CONTENT WARNING - Physical Abuse is discussed in this episode. **** If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at [email protected] To help out our podcast, please fill out our listener survey, click here. PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS: Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here Something Was Wrong | Click Here SUPPORT US BY SUPPORTING OUR SPONSOR: To receive 35% off Cozy Earth bedding, loungewear, and everything site wide, use the code “NAP” at Cozyearth.com If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:30.9	On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, we talk with an abuse survivor named Carmela,
0:37.0	and Carmela was married to a
0:39.1	misogynistic, narcissistic abuser. It's a story of pushing boundaries, jealousy, entitlement,
0:47.1	physical abuse, custody, and post-separation abuse.
1:09.0	Music Post separation, abuse. Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse, everyone. I am Brandon Chadwick and with me today, we have Carmela. How are you?
1:21.1	I'm good, Brandon. Thank you. How are you?
1:24.1	I am doing well. Thank you for asking. And if you want to be a guest like Carmela is today,
1:31.1	please do go to our website at Narcissistapocalypse.com. Top of the page, there's a button that says
1:36.5	guest form. When you click on that button, it takes you to our guest form page. There you can read
1:41.4	all of our instructions and either send us an email at narcissist apoclops
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2:07.5	So if you have time to do it, please do that for us. And today we have a content warning for this
2:13.8	episode as we do discuss physical abuse in this episode, graphic depictions of physical
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