Care and Feeding | Slate's parenting show - When Your Kids Can’t Eat the Same Thing
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🗓️ 14 July 2025
⏱️ 32 minutes
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Summary
On this episode: Elizabeth Newcamp, Zak Rosen, and Lucy Lopez dive into a letter from a parent who’s stuck in the food fight crossfire between their college-aged child—who has both celiac and ARFID—and a preschooler who’s suddenly mimicking the restrictive eating. Is this a passing phase? A red flag? Or just one of those strange sibling mirrors? The hosts unpack family dynamics, poop accidents, and how to keep everyone’s plate (and gut) happy.
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| 0:00.0 | This episode contains explicit language. |
| 0:03.5 | Welcome to Karen Feeding, the show where we raise the next generation together. |
| 0:07.3 | I'm Elizabeth Newkamp. |
| 0:08.6 | I write the family travel blog, Dutch, Dutch, Goose. |
| 0:10.8 | I'm the mom to Henry who's 13, Oliver who's 11, and Teddy, who's 8. |
| 0:15.0 | We live in Tokyo, Japan. |
| 0:17.1 | Hey, I'm Lucy Lopez. |
| 0:18.4 | I host another podcast, the Mamacita Rica. I'm mother to Amelia, who's 15, Avery, who's 12, and we live in Miami. |
| 0:26.8 | I'm Zach Rosen. I host the Best Advice Show podcast, and I live in Amsterdam with my family. Noah is seven, and Ami is four. |
| 0:36.4 | Today on the show, what to do when your little kid only wants to eat like your big kid, |
| 0:41.4 | and it's causing a big problem. |
| 0:43.3 | We'll try and help them navigate their different food needs under one roof. |
| 0:47.6 | We'll discuss, then after that, we'll check in with each other and share what's on our |
| 0:51.8 | minds this week. |
| 0:52.9 | So let's get going. |
| 0:53.8 | We're going to take |
| 0:54.7 | a quick break and meet you to answer a listener question. This came into the Karen Feeding email inbox. |
| 1:27.0 | Dear Karen Feeding, our three kids are a |
| 1:29.5 | widespread of ages, preschool, high school, and college. And this makes for a bunch of tricky |
| 1:34.9 | situations, but the one I'm going in mental circles about is this. The eldest kiddo has a tricky |
| 1:41.3 | combo of celiac and arphid. Eldis spent the fall away at college, and although it |
| 1:47.8 | wasn't good for them, it made eating at our home so much easier. Meals were served and eaten. No drama. |
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