Care and Feeding | Slate's parenting show - Swear Jar For a 6-Year-Old
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🗓️ 13 March 2023
⏱️ 28 minutes
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Summary
On this episode: Elizabeth, Jamilah and Zak help a listener whose six-year-old has started telling them “f*ck you.” Swearing is allowed in their house but this feels pointed and categorically different than a casual curse. How can they curb the cursing before it gets worse?
Recommendations:
Jamilah recommends giving Flaming Hot Cheetos a second chance.
Zak recommends The Nugget
Elizabeth recommends Edx Education Fun Play Number Rods.
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| 0:00.0 | I'm Jonathan Braylock, I'm Dra. Milligan, and I'm James III. And we're those of Black |
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| 0:13.6 | of color and analyze them in the context of race and Hollywood's diversity issues. |
| 0:17.5 | Yeah. Listen to new episodes on Mondays. Find us wherever you get your podcasts. I don't |
| 0:22.6 | care where you get them. I just want you to listen. Don't threaten the people we need |
| 0:26.9 | them to listen. Oh, okay. Okay. Okay. Sorry, guys. Listen. Listen to us. Yeah. Yeah. Put |
| 0:32.0 | on a happy voice. This episode contains explicit language and lots of it. Welcome to Mom |
| 0:44.8 | and Dad are fighting slights parenting podcasts for Monday, March 13th, the cursing kids |
| 0:49.1 | edition. I'm Zach Rosen. I host another show. It's called the best advice show. And I live |
| 0:54.3 | in Detroit with my family. My oldest Noah is five and my youngest Ami is two. I'm Melissa |
| 1:00.4 | with New Camp. I write the homespone family travel blog, Dutch Dutch Goose. I'm the mom |
| 1:04.5 | of three little Henry, who's 10, Oliver, who's eight, and Teddy, who's six. We live in Colorado |
| 1:09.1 | Springs, Colorado. I'm Jamile Lemieux, a writer and contributor to Slate's |
| 1:14.2 | care and feeding parenting column. I'm mom tonight, Emma, who is going to be 10 in just |
| 1:19.6 | a few weeks. And we live in Los Angeles. Today's show is brought to you by the letter F. Because |
| 1:27.0 | our letter writer, six year old, will not stop saying, fuck you. We've got some thoughts |
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