Care and Feeding | Slate's parenting show - Playdate Etiquette Edition
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🗓️ 3 September 2021
⏱️ 41 minutes
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Summary
On this week’s episode: Elizabeth and Aymann discuss their triumphs and fails for the week. Then they answer a question from a listener who feels she’s being borderline ghosted by other parents after their children’s playdates.
Later, they have some advice for a parent whose 12 year old son is very set in his views as they pertain to religion but his mom worries that this may cause problems down the line for one of his new friendships. How can she help her son navigate this potential conflict?
In Slate Plus: Free-range parenting: what is it and is it for you?
Recommendations:
Elizabeth recommends Perler Bead Craft Bead Sweeper to help you clean up all of those pesky beads in one quick sweep.
Aymann recommends getting a Kodak Photo Printer so that you can join him in instantly printing out all of those adorable photos of your kids that you have stored on your iPhone.
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Podcast produced by Morgan Flannery.
Hosts
Elizabeth Newcamp is a co-host of Mom and Dad Are Fighting. She's a traveling mother of three boys who chronicles her misadventures at Dutch, Dutch, Goose.
Jamilah Lemieux is a writer, cultural critic, and communications strategist based in Brooklyn, New York.
Aymann Ismail is an award winning staff writer at Slate whose work focuses on identity and religion.
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Hey everyone. Welcome to Mom and Dad are Fighting Slate's Parenting Podcast for Thursday, September 2nd, the Playday Etiquette Edition. I'm Aiman Ismail. I am also very, very tired because I have a two-month-old. His name is Musa. |
| 0:19.2 | And he's the cutest. I'm Elizabeth Newkamp. I write the homeschool and family travel blog Dutch Dutch Goose. And I'm the mom to three littles, Henry, who's nine, Oliver, who's seven, and Teddy who's four. And we live in Colorado Springs, Colorado. And Jamila's out today. But we're going to do it justice, I promise. Unless we get interrupted by one of our babies and then we have to run around, |
| 0:38.8 | then this can be a whole ordeal, then we'll fix it in editing, and whatever. |
| 0:42.3 | So on today's show, we're answering a listener question from a parent who has some questions on Playday etiquette. |
| 0:49.3 | What is proper Playday etiquette, and what do you do when other parents don't follow it? |
| 0:55.2 | Then we get some advice to a listener who is trying to navigate differing religious |
| 0:58.4 | beliefs of another family. How can she teach her 12-year-old son to be more accepting of |
| 1:03.5 | other people's views when he's quite set in his own? On Slate Plus, we're talking about the |
| 1:08.9 | concept of free-range children. What are free-range children, and how do we feel about letting our children gain certain forms of independence at a younger age? But first, we're going to kick off the show with some triumphs and fails. Elizabeth, do you have any triumphs or fails this week? Yeah, so I'm going to claim a triumph. Nice. At the end, a triumph. I mean, it's sort of a fail that we turn into a triumph, but aren't all great triumphs. Yeah. Totally understandable. So over the summer, one of the things on my list I had to do with the kids was that I really wanted to take them to a baseball game. I love watching baseball, and we just hadn't really brought the kids. And because |
| 1:45.7 | we sort of had these formidable years in the Netherlands, they're confused about a lot of sports. |
| 1:50.7 | Like one time at gymnastics, Henry was asked who his favorite football team was, and he said |
| 1:55.5 | we root for the Netherlands because he thought they meant soccer. So when we got here, I thought, well, we'll go to a Colorado Rockies game. |
| 2:03.2 | Great. |
| 2:03.7 | Then I discovered that tickets are like a million dollars. |
| 2:06.6 | And there's five of us, and I wanted us all to go. |
| 2:09.5 | But Colorado Springs has a baseball team that's like below minor league. |
| 2:15.2 | It's called Premier League. |
| 2:16.5 | And it's like associated with the MLB. I don't know |
| 2:18.9 | how familiar you guys are with baseball. But we kept saying they have these military appreciation |
| 2:23.5 | nights where the tickets are like basically free. Like they're very cheap. I thought this is great. |
| 2:28.4 | We'll go. If the kids hated, who cares. But we kept kind of like putting it off like something |
| 2:32.5 | else would come up or the weather would be bad so |
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