Care and Feeding | Slate's parenting show - My Kid is Not a Helper
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🗓️ 7 August 2025
⏱️ 28 minutes
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Summary
On this episode: Lucy, Zak, and Elizabeth respond to a letter from a parent who wants their six-year-old to be more helpful, but every small request turns into a debate. How can caregivers encourage a spirit of contribution without forcing it?
But first, we’ll circle up for a round of check-ins—bras, birthdays, and babysitter drama. And on Slate Plus, we’re talking about what to do when a child’s nature rubs up against a parent’s values.
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| 0:00.0 | Why are businesses like HelloVet choosing Apple products and services? |
| 0:04.8 | So we started the business two years ago. |
| 0:07.2 | We had a few people who were used to PCs and this was their first foray into Macs. |
| 0:12.5 | But it's been super smooth getting everyone onto those devices and everyone seems really, really happy. |
| 0:18.0 | Find out how Mac can help you run and grow your business at apple.com forward slash |
| 0:23.6 | HelloVet. |
| 0:26.0 | This episode may contain explicit language. |
| 0:29.5 | Welcome to Karen Feeding, the show where we raise the next generation together. |
| 0:33.1 | I'm Zach Rosen. |
| 0:33.9 | I make another podcast that's called The Best Advice Show. |
| 0:36.5 | And I have two kids. Noah is |
| 0:38.6 | seven, really close to eight. And Ami is four pretty darn close to five. We're living in Amsterdam for the next couple weeks, then heading back to the States. I'm Elizabeth New Camp. I write the homeschool and family travel blog, Dutch Dutch Goose. I'm the mom to Henry who's 13, Oliver who's 11 and Teddy who's 8, and we live in Tokyo, Dakain. |
| 0:56.5 | Hey, what's up on Lucy Lopez? I host another podcast, the Mamasita Rica. I'm Mom to Amelia, who's 15, Avery, who's 13, and we live where you love to vacation, Miami. Today on the show, we're going to answer a question from a listener whose kid refuses to pitch in |
| 1:11.2 | around the house. She wants to know how to raise a helper, not a negotiator. But first, |
| 1:16.0 | we'll get started with a round of triumphs and fails. Stick around. |
| 1:22.5 | On Billboard's Hot 100, America's flagship pop chart, There are number ones, and then there are number one debuts. |
| 1:36.8 | Join me, Chris Malanfi, for a look at the chart calculus, superfan interventions, and fluky conditions that turn a brand new single |
| 1:47.1 | into an instant success without any guarantee of longevity. When it comes to hits, it's not |
| 1:54.9 | where you start, it's where you finish. Find hit parade wherever you get your podcasts. |
| 2:03.5 | Hey, it's Anna Sale, host of death, sex, and money, the podcast from Slate about the things we think about a lot and need to talk about more. |
| 2:12.7 | And recently we asked you to tell us stories about your beauty interventions, what you've decided to invest time and money in to improve your appearance. |
| 2:22.3 | So I looked at my dad and I looked at him carefully and said, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. |
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