Can You Handle This? | Tara Brach
10% Happier with Dan Harris
10% Media, LLC
4.6 • 12.9K Ratings
🗓️ 3 January 2022
⏱️ 72 minutes
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Summary
This is the third episode of our Getting Unstuck Series and we're kicking off the new year with a giant in the meditation world. Tara Brach holds a PhD in clinical psychology and has been practicing and teaching meditation around the world for more than four decades. She is the founder of the Insight Meditation Community of Washington and the author of numerous books. She's here today to talk about her newest, which is called Trusting the Gold: Uncovering Your Natural Goodness, and features illustrations by Vicky Alvarez.
Tara's argument is that we too often get stuck in what she calls a "trance of unworthiness," spiraling into negativity about who we are and how we are in the world. That's the bad news. But the good news is that we all have an inherent goodness – what is sometimes called "Buddha nature," and what she in this book calls "the gold."
In this episode, Tara explains that the boundaries around what we are willing to accept in ourselves mirror the boundaries around our own capacity for happiness, and she offers actionable tools for expanding our ability to accept. She also talks very bravely about how she's done this work on herself.
Join us today for Getting Unstuck – our free 14-day meditation challenge, over on the Ten Percent Happier app. Click here to get started.
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| 0:00.0 | This is the 10% Happier Podcast. |
| 0:05.6 | I'm Dan Harris. |
| 0:07.0 | Hey, everybody. |
| 0:11.6 | Happy New Year. |
| 0:13.2 | Generally, around the New Year, the kind of programming you get from the media is pretty |
| 0:18.7 | ra ra happy clappy, New Year, New Year, and so on. |
| 0:23.2 | And I say this as a guy who's spent nearly three decades in the belly of the beast as an |
| 0:27.6 | anchorman. |
| 0:28.6 | Today, though, we're going to take a pretty deeply different tack. |
| 0:33.5 | We're going to attempt what may be the most baller psychological slash contemplative move |
| 0:39.0 | available to stare directly at our own ugliness. |
| 0:44.3 | All of us have things we do not like about ourselves. |
| 0:46.4 | Rage, sadness, selfishness, sloth, hatred, the odd, shudder-inducing glimpse of our own |
| 0:52.0 | capacity for prejudice, whatever. |
| 0:53.8 | We all have our own bespoke mix. |
| 0:56.8 | Generally, we handle the difficult aspects of our personalities in one of three habitual |
| 1:03.1 | ways. |
| 1:04.1 | We feed them, we flee them, or we numb out. |
| 1:06.9 | Today, though, we're going to try to do that classic Buddhist thing, the fourth option |
| 1:11.8 | of trying to look at our demons with some clarity and even some warmth. |
| 1:18.4 | We're kicking off this New Year with a giant in the meditation world. |
| 1:22.1 | Tara Brock holds a PhD in clinical psychology and has been practicing and teaching meditation |
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