So what do we think? How are we feeling? How did that go? I'm feeling. Same. Yeah the fact that we were like

complete strangers a few weeks ago and here we are tonight. I feel good about this. We have gotten to

know each other fairly quickly and definitely peeled back some layers. I don't know about you. I'm having

breakthrough so I'm curious to know if I'm the only one or is anybody else. Yeah I think the

conversation that stands out the most to me is obviously sex right. But if I'm being completely

transparent I'm leaning towards the attachment styles. Like I didn't know much about it and the

fact that we were able to flush that out I really feel good about that. When I brought you into my

world I introduced you to my village right? Because my village means so much to me so if I'm willing

to pull you into my village it got to be a different type of love and when people don't really

appreciate that or identify with that. I think that for granted. It kind of yeah and you know it

builds the attachment style that I have now which you know it's somewhat healthy, somewhat unhealthy.

I just got to find a balance I guess. That was a really good moment. I think that was a real we

really got close on that one and then I also recognized that I was not secured everything.

One of my favorite moments was discussing the trauma of violence. That was I got extremely

vulnerable. I feel like we got real close because I shared some really intimate parts of myself with you guys.

I grew up in the projects super fucking poor. I grew up in a very toxic dynamic of a family

relationship. Talking about my parents beat each other up right? Cheated on each other,

cheated on each other in front of me. My father was hustled in the streets. So my dad experienced

a ton of violence. He's an immigrant you know from Ecuador. He got his ass whooped by my grandma.

He was his association with violence is with his mom. My mom's mom died of a heroin overdose.

My mom's dad died of cirrhosis of the liver when she was like 10. It's a form of violence for you

to see these very violent deaths that your family is living. My point is is that you don't need to

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