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Pamela, welcome to the program.

Thanks, Dr. Lara. Thanks for taking my call.

My pleasure.

Well, the reason I'm calling.

I was married for 32 years, got divorced, and decided to turn myself out there into the online dating pool world.

Met a gentleman, and we had a connection, started to date, and as we were getting serious, I began asking him questions.

Like, did you ever cheat on your wife?

Things of that nature.

Anyway, initially he told me no.

But as I kind of thought he was not telling me the truth, and as we continued to date,

and I pressed for this question again, he said eventually, yes, he did wind up cheating on his wife.

And he told me the circumstances, you know, he was in a long-term marriage like myself,

his wife wouldn't give him sex, blah, blah, blah, and, you know, eventually this affair

happened for a short time.

And then there was another incident where he owns a tree business and there was a woman working for him, which I thought was odd, a woman working in a tree business, which is kind of like guys work.

And here this woman was somebody that he had dated while he was when he first got divorced,

but she still worked for him.

And at that point, I broke up with him.

And I said, look, you've already cheated on your wife.

You're employing somebody that you were in a relationship with.

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