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Can I tell you a secret?

Can I tell you a secret? Episode three: the man upstairs

Can I tell you a secret?

The Guardian

News

4.6785 Ratings

🗓️ 23 September 2022

⏱️ 39 minutes

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Summary

Who is Matthew? Journalist Sirin Kale looks for clues about who this cyberstalker really is and why he creates chaos and fear in so many people’s lives

Transcript

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0:00.0

This is The Guardian.

0:06.3

Just before we begin, this is a podcast series about stalking and some people might find parts of it difficult to listen to.

0:17.2

International charity ActionAid has been working with refugee communities in northern Uganda,

0:22.5

helping women heal from gender-based violence.

0:25.5

Women like Monica from South Sudan, who found a safe space to recover from her trauma and learn leadership skills.

0:31.7

Monica now helps empower other women too.

0:34.3

Now I can stand talking front of people, even talk in front of men without fear,

0:39.9

telling them that this is right, this is wrong. This winter, help ActionAid provide life-saving

0:45.4

services and support to refugee women and girls as they heal, learn, work and thrive.

0:51.2

Just £20 could cover the daily fee of a counsellor supporting survivors of violence.

0:56.0

To discover more about Monica's journey or to donate, visit actionaid.org.uket, forward slash podcast.

1:05.1

Over the last two episodes, we've heard what happened to the women Matthew was targeting online.

1:15.6

How he began, close to home, in a town called Northwich, but over the years, started to stalk women all over the country, until in February February 2020 when Matthew was arrested by PC Kevin Anderson.

1:33.3

I've spoken to so many of Matthews victims for this story and all along I've been consumed by this question.

1:40.3

Who is Matthew Hardy and why did he do this to them?

1:49.0

For over a decade, Matthew has watched people online, so the obvious place to start finding out about him is through his social media.

2:00.0

After all, isn't that what we all do these days?

2:04.7

His Instagram is private, but I find his Facebook.

2:09.3

I click on his profile picture.

2:14.1

Matthews at a pool party in Ibiza.

2:21.6

Everyone's splashing around in bikinis and swimming trunks,

2:29.2

but Matthew's fully dressed. His hands are tucked into his long shorts and mirrored aviators hide his eyes. He's tall with short, light brown hair and he looks awkward.

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